do you agree with spanking?if yes do you agree with spanking in public?

Question

i get spanked at home and in public my mum has pulled my trousers and pants down before and spanked me in public and i dont hate her for it i was very embarrased but i spat in a ladys face and told her to shut up and all she did was say to her son odear that girl isbeing naughtey i have never spat in anyones face again but do you agree with spanking and do you agree with spanking in public?

no not in a kinky way as in a punishment for a naughtey kid like me an my sisters

it was 3 yrs ago when i was 7 and i always think before doing smthing in public ow but somtimes i make the wrong choice like i got a spank in a cafe today because i didnt want my orange juice i wanted coke and my mum said no so i pushed the glasson to the floor and it smashed my mum grabbed my hand marched me to the bathrooms were there was a hudge que so she just took me to the sink bit pulled up my dress and pulled down my underwear nelt down and put me over her knee.lots of people were saying look at that naughtey girl and kids were laughing then she took me back down and made me say sorry and sat me on the chair on my butt witch hurt quite a bit but i no i deserved it

when i asked my mum befor why she spanks us when we are in public and not when we get home and she said she did that but it wasnt very affective because in that time me or my sisters would have forgot what we did. And she also said untill she started spanking in public we were very very bad out because we new we wouldnt be punished and she also said she tryed time out in public and at home but it never worked with me-10 or my sister who is 6 only grace who is 4 but she couldnt give her1 kind of punishment and then carly somthing different

grounding doesnt rely work wih me and somtimes i get grounded and spanked
and you cant ground a little kid

Answer 1

yes at home and yes in public

i have shown my daughters hind to he whole of walmart before when she ran off with the trolly bashing in to people then atesome chocolate bars and pushed a load of glasses of a shelf i did it out of love but iwas angry i grabbed her by the hand and took her over to the nearest chair got her butt out put her over my knee and swatted it 4 or 5 times and then made her sit in the baby seat of the trolly straight after on her bere butt witch i no from experience is embarrising and hurts to sit on it. when i was 7 or 8 i remeber my one of the spankings i had in public i was in a store cafe and i said this food looks like my poop and through it on the floor then i pushed over the chair and was being sassy to people and myfather grabbed me took of my skirt tights and underwear and put me over his knee and spaked me 6 times then sat me down on it and i was stinging and didnt let me have my clthesback i had to walk round the stoor with kids laughing at me

Answer 2

So many people confuse spanking with beating and judging by a few answers here too many of these who don't believe in spanking either have no children or spoiled children or children that will grow up in trouble because they did not learn discipline. Spanking is a parents way of teaching children the negative results of bad behavior. While I would never bare my child's bottom in public, I do believe that if my child mis-behaves in public you need to address the mis-behavior immediately. Then you explain why you spanked the child and re-inforce your love for them. As your children grow, you can lessen the spanking in most cases to a stern look or a word of reproach because your children know to stop the mis-behaviour. I don't claim to be an expert on the subject but after raising 7 of my own children I think I can safely say I did right by them. They know that no matter how upset I am I will always and unconditionally love them.

And, just to put in my two cents worth, Dr. Spock, or whatever his name is can take a flying leap. Anyone who actually reads his book and believes that a man who has had no children when he tells you how to raise your kid's is not playing with a full deck.

Answer 3

I'm kind of with Kit here in that disobedience should be dealt with on the spot, but in this day and age, I'd be reluctant to spank in a supermarket or store or somewhere like that because it's a damn good way to end up in jail. My son (15 at the time) had a little party with some of his friends last year and my husband and I came home a day earlier than he obviously expected. Half naked girls and boys sprawled all over the living room with beer cans and cigarette butts everywhere kind of pushed me over the edge. I dropped his drawers and blistered his fanny with my hairbrush until he was bawling like a 5-year-old in front of everyone. My intention wasn't to embarrass him but I was so mad he was going to get it, regardless. Sometimes it happens. As parents, we're human. If I had to take it back would I? Probably. I think I would have taken him into the other room. But I won't deny that the embarrassment of that spanking has molded a well behaved teenager lately (for the most part, lol).

Answer 4

I do not agree with spanking but have smacked both of my own children and it was for running in to the road 1 is 4 one is 6 and really it was from my own frustration and if I saw another person spank their child the way your mother did I would not be impressed if your child misbehaves you take them home if you really need to spank this is not the way to do it.Your mother was lucky no one called the police

Answer 5

More often then not spanking in public is warranted because the threat of a spanking when you get home is not workable because by the time you get home the child forgot why he was going to get a spanking and you may forget yourself. Just do it in moderation. But yes I agree in spanking according to Proverbs 22:6 and 22:15

Answer 6

Spanking a child is never okay. Studies have shown that spanking has negative psychological effects of children. Think about the people you know that were spanked as a child. They won't remember what they were spanked for, just that they were spanked by their parent. There are so many alternitive ways to dicipline a child that are more effective than spanking. Your mother probably won't change her parenting ways, but you can swear never to spank your children. I suggest that you try your best to behave when around her and do what she asks the first time so that she realizes there are other ways to handle children.

Answer 7

Yes I do as a last resort. I also would spank my child in public if it came to that. My mom always told me to get them wherever they act up at. If you wait until they get home they'll forget all about why they're being spanked. Don't get me wrong I haven't had to spank in public but if I had to I would probably take them in the bathroom or something. All that coming from the mother of three kids.

Answer 8

I agree with spanking in the right way.. i dont think you should spanke out of anger. i think you should spank when your calm and collective.. and i think you should make sure the child understand why hes/she is getting spanked i.e. spitting in someones face.. i also think that you should only spank in the bottom.. i think thats why God made them so cussiony..lol.. I dont agree with spamking out of anger either.. as for spanking in public.. i wouldent personelly do it because thier are so many people out their who dont like it and would be offended.. i would however take my child out to the car/ bathroom/ private room and spank them their.. I dont want to humiliate my child i want to teach them a lesson.. I was spanked growing up. and ive never resented my parents for it..

Answer 9

Dont agree with any physical punishment of a child (or pet for that matter). There are far more effective ways to punish a child without resorting to violence. I was cained when i was younger. Yeah it hurt, but being grounded hurt more besides Ive never really forgiven my Mum for caining me and the memories of her unleashing her anger on me are still painful 38 years on!

Answer 10

No I do not. there are other ways to correct a child when they make mistakes.
kids do and will make mistakes.it's part of growing up and a learning process. but it is our jobs as a parent to correct the mistake. children sometimes don't understand, yes maybe some do understand. but when a child makes a mistake they need to know why or what was the mistake and how to correctly understand what the mistake was. spanking is a form of abuse, abuse is not fun. spanking hurts. yeah I know some do believe a child will learn better. but I don't believe that. spanking teaches a child to hit and that its OK to hit.
spitting is not right either. its disrespectful of the child to spit in their parents face. how awful.

Answer 11

Spanking is unacceptable. My father spanked me when I was a child and it traumatized me. Not to mention it teaches most children that hitting somebody is ok Children are people not dogs...and in todays society if someone saw a person beating their dog they would call the spca, but don't do anything about a child being "spanked" . What's the world coming to? It's child abuse. And I don't know the law where you're from...but in Canada a person is legally bound to report child abuse. By the way...I'm an Early Childhood Education Teacher.