We have been together for 6 years, he cheated me and he is with somebody else right now, but i still thinking about him and our past and i am wondering what i have done wrong...
2007-03-24 07:38:52 · 17 answers · asked by ladyevil 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh for christ's sake! Forget him! youve been with him for six years then he cheated on you?! huh? try too imagine it girl your boyfriend is a dick!
2007-03-24 07:45:38 · answer #1 · answered by Mafioso! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your still thinking about him maybe there are some unresolved feelongs. If you are still in touch with him maybe you should try talking to him to get a sense of what went wrong. Maybe when you two were together there were some things that provoked him to cheat. Not that there's anything wrong with you but maybe the problem lies within him. It hurts when your partner cheats and it always leaves unanswered questions and doubt about alot of things but if he has moved on maybe he will be kind enough to help you to move on by resolving your wondering. You need to resolve the matter because the next guy you deal with will suffer from what this guy left behind. Good luck and Im truly sorry you had to have this happen. Trust me I know it's not easy. I've been the cheater and the one cheated on.
2007-03-24 14:58:06 · answer #2 · answered by johnnie b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheer up girl.. a guy like your ex should be put in the trash for cheating you. Yeah I know that's it is hard to move on and forget the 6 years relationship..but hey think again... there are a lot of people to meet.. it's not yet the end of the world after all, right?? You know what? I'm also in the same situation that's why I can relate on your problem, girl.. we'll meet our man in the near future, don't worry. Smile..
2007-03-24 14:46:35 · answer #3 · answered by Donnabel d 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
U DID NOTHING WRONG HONEY!!!! Guys are dick heads and it's normal 2 have feelings 4 him.... but u gotta get pissed off as a M-F- er @ him and date someone else and try ur hardest 2 4get him sweetie..... I went through the same thing, it worked 4 me.... now when i see my ex i want 2 stab his dumb as.s! Good Luck and i hope he gets an STD from that whore LOL There are some pretty dam.n sexy fish left in the sea.... Love Ya Babe.... And i hope everything works out 4 u.
2007-03-24 14:45:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
See if you can get together and talk with him. You had every right to break up with him if he's cheating. To have been together for 6 years it must hurt.YOu deserve some answers. Ask him why he cheated on you. My heart goes out to you.Good luck
2007-03-24 14:45:20 · answer #5 · answered by metro7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First understand that you have done NOTHING wrong. He cheated on you; you don't deserve that, and obviously he doesn't deserve you. You deserve a great guy, and with patience, you will find him. I know it hurts, a relationship that long must be terribly hard to get over. Surround yourself with friends and loved ones and don't ever forget that you deserve the best.
2007-03-24 14:43:09 · answer #6 · answered by indiesky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You Broke up for him for a good reason, I mean he moved on but did he really change, let him be someone Else's problem, I mean who knows you guy may be meant for one another but while he is with his girlfriend I wouldn't put so much effort to get him back, who knows he just might be doing the same thing that he did with you!
2007-03-24 14:46:10 · answer #7 · answered by Breann 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
6 years? thats tough. my ex-boyfriend did the same thing! (except we didn't go out with each other for 6 years) i still think about him. but i just try to think of the better thinks in life like my great friends or awesome family and i think about it some more and i realize i really AM better off without him!
2007-03-24 14:47:58 · answer #8 · answered by MaryAlison 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cut yourself some slack. that was 6 yrs. of your life of course your thinking about him. you were more invested than he was. it always hurts when the relationship was lop sided. but think of it this way going back to him would be like jumping from the frying pan into the fire if he hurts you again. it will get easier day by day. keep yourself busy and tell your self your on to bigger and better! remember, you deserve the best!
2007-03-24 14:46:06 · answer #9 · answered by sheerpoetry 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds to me like you didnt do anything wrong! he's the one that cheated on you....not the other way around. Now he's seeing some else, so it appears he's making strides to move on with his life and you should do the same.
2007-03-24 14:42:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋