when i was about 12 and i was on vacation with my cousin who was 16 at the time. our families are very close and often go traveling together. Me and him shared a room, and in the middle of the night, when he thought i was asleep, he lifted my hand and put it on his you know what =[
i was very tamatized but said nothing and pretend to have been asleep and know nothing about it. I havent told anyone becuase i tink it would cause problems between our families and we are SOO close! was i molested, and shouldi do something?
2007-03-24 07:35:10 · 9 answers · asked by zoey c 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
happens all the time, feels bad doesn't it, you get paralyzed, he was 16 so old enough to know better, you can tell your mother, talk to her about it, obviously you need to get it out :) next time something like this happens ( i hope it never does ), but if ever you are in a similar situation no matter how hard it is, react, you will feel much better, scream, push them away, call out for someone
2007-03-24 07:49:11 · answer #1 · answered by Sahar 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that this goes beyond you taking advice from strangers on a website. No one here is really qualified to tell you how you should feel or what you should do. What matters the most is how YOU feel and what YOU think. If this is something that you can't keep to yourself anymore, and you don't feel comfortable talking to your family, then I suggest that you talk to a counselor. Someone who is professionally suitable to help you deal with your feelings and can guide you in the right direction as to what decisions you should make and someone who is bound by his/her profession to not tell anyone what you have told him/her.
2007-03-24 09:12:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes you need to tell your parents, or your mom or dad. Even if your familys were close it is wrong for him to have done that . If you get help you will feel better. But rember therapy will be tough and hard . But in the end it will help. And it not causing problems yes it will be hard. And yes your familys might not be as close but still you need to be strong and tell. God bless you .
2007-03-24 07:51:25 · answer #3 · answered by crazyone 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Close enough to be, yeah.
The solution - tell your parents. This is not something that should be kept a secret from them, no matter how close your families are. They need to know that your cousin did something very sick and disgusting to you. Never keep these thoughts bottled up inside you.
Good luck!
2007-03-24 07:46:34 · answer #4 · answered by tigertrot1986 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You werent really molested he was probly just horny or somethin and he wanted to feel someone but im self touch there that is pretty creepy but ur right , its not really that serious and it might cause trouble in the family if he ever does something like that again tell ur parents
2007-03-24 07:40:35 · answer #5 · answered by TheJesterTwist 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I dealt with similar problem with my daughter her cousin was touching her inapproriatly.I conacted local Sexual Abuse Center and they helped try to find one in your area.Good luck.
2007-03-24 08:02:46 · answer #6 · answered by cleopatra 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no i don't think u was molested. i think the boy was experimenting. rather u tell someone or not is up to u. u need to see how u really feel about it.
2007-03-24 08:29:33 · answer #7 · answered by chad_27292 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes i think you were molested i think you should onfront the person and tell him to keep his hands to himself
2007-03-24 07:44:54 · answer #8 · answered by Tina E 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think he was exploring his sexuality the wrong way, and yes, you DO need to say something... i hope he did not do anything else...
2007-03-24 07:39:03 · answer #9 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋