I don't know if my boyfriend wants sex from me. We've been going out for almost 7 months already. Yesterday we were talking and he was saying that he was going to chain me up where no one could ever find me. He said I would be with my arms up against the fence, my legs wide open, and that I would be naked it to make a little more fun. As he was saying it he was putting me into the postion he describe. He put his legs between mine and we started kissing then he picked me up and got me against the fence. The whole time he was pushing himself on me. When he put me down he said that maybe he'll even turn me around. We've had the talk of what would happen if we ever had sex and I've asked him before if he ever wanted to and he always replies no. But I don't know if he does. Do you think he does and what should I do?
2007-03-24 07:34:15 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He wants sex, whether it's from you or anyone. It's a natural thing for a teenage boy to want. Don't listen to what he says, listen to his ACTIONS...what are they telling you? What are your instincts telling you? That is where you are letting yourself down, trust your gut, and then the answer will come easily.
The important question is what do YOU want.
It looks like he is fantasizing with you about things he would like to do. YOU have to make it clear what YOU want. Don't worry about making him pleased, worry about what is important for you and what will make you feel good about yourself. Going against what you feel is right, or what you're not ready for is going to haunt you for the rest of your life. Don't be afraid to say what it is that you want.
2007-03-24 07:43:06 · answer #1 · answered by coridroz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
welllllllll i think your boyfreind might be on the fence about having sex with you,or even having sex on the fence ,who knows you might even like it
remember dont knock it till you have tried it
2007-03-24 07:40:43 · answer #2 · answered by geronkey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants to have sex the only reason he said no when you asked him is cause he thinks you dont....
2007-03-24 07:40:53 · answer #3 · answered by Jesse 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All you can do is go by his answer -- which is no.
Frankly, it all seems weird. Too many head games...clear sign of an unhealthy relationship. Do something better with your time.
2007-03-24 07:40:48 · answer #4 · answered by japarino 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think hat he may want to but he is unsure about you. Talk to him about it and if he says no then just drop it for a bit
2007-03-24 07:42:53 · answer #5 · answered by Karla K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol...this girl does this to me to...i just play with her back...
im not sure about ur situation if he i playin with your head. But u kno...if he says no...its his loss lol...also you have an excuse if you dont want to at the moment...idk lol
2007-03-24 07:45:16 · answer #6 · answered by redpoker777 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that sounds kinda creepy...just ask him and if he says no then its a no...but dont push it
2007-03-24 07:40:15 · answer #7 · answered by Jessica :) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋