So i am dating this guy and everything is ok i guess. I just have feelings for him and another guy. I think my bf now likes me more than I do him and hes not going to move because of me. i just dont think i like him that much. i dont know though. the other guy and i are never going to be together because he is going in the army so that wont work. i just dont really want to be tied down...and he is 2 years older than me. i just thinks he wants more out of our relationship then i do. i just dont want to hurt him but i dont know what to do. i like him but i dont love him. it seems like a whole giant mess...it sucks...please help me...i am terrible at making decisions...
2007-03-24 07:33:05 · 4 answers · asked by Jessica :) 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
im on spring break so when we go back to school i will probably end it...or i might so he can get over it by that time...im just so confused
2007-03-24 07:35:44 · update #1
U sound so confused. First of all there is no such thing as liking two guys at a time. It sound like u just don't want to be alone. U know u don't have feelings for the guy ur dating come on stop playing yourself, let him go he doen't deserve this, youre beign selfish. Now it sounds like u really like the army guy but since he's leaving u don't want nothing with him. Stop playing around. If u like the army guy don't limit urself cause you won't see him for a while, but let the other guy go, youre just playing with his feelings. Clearly if u just don't want to be alone and feel u need someone in your life then u still need to grow up. There's many guys out there that will have fligns do that but don't play with guys emotions they don't deserve that.
2007-03-24 07:43:46 · answer #1 · answered by grissy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look at it this way, and not that you have to choose one guy over another. It really sounds like you have issues with commitment at the moment. So, if I were you instead of wasting his and your time tell him you are not in a position right now to have a committed relationship and that you don't want things to go sour. Tell him truthfully that you really want to explore or that your JUST NOT READY. There is no harm done I am not going to say that he won't be hurt, but is you have to question the relationship you are in now then you really shouldn't be in it don't you think?
2007-03-24 07:38:12 · answer #2 · answered by pattiof 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are terrible at making decisions-but know that NOT making a decision is also a decision. Realize its ok to not be going out with anyone, so that when a REALLY good candidate for you comes along, you will really feel like going out with just him.
2007-03-24 07:45:57 · answer #3 · answered by Niki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Show him this letter and take things from there.
Yes, it sounds like you should end it.
2007-03-24 07:36:56 · answer #4 · answered by japarino 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋