am 17 and i want to go to my sisters birthday to see the person who i love but i doubt if she wants me there but i know alot of people and would stay out of her hair what do you think?
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I am going to the family thing this is just her friend in a resurant but my brother and cousins are going cos there her friends
2007-03-24 07:29:40 · 19 answers · asked by Yohanna 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
my sis is 26
2007-03-24 07:36:24 · update #1
dont gooe wait till ur invited!¬!!!
2007-03-24 22:28:14 · answer #1 · answered by Zalia 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you weren't invited, then don't go. It is her party and she is allowed to invite who she wants. When you say the person you love, are you referring to your sister? If you are talking about some guy, then you would be going to the party for the wrong reason. Also, you did not say how old your sister is. If it is an older birthday, like 21, she has every reason not to want you therem especially if she is also having a family party. You are being kind of selfish and not thinking about what your sister wants. Have you even asked her yet? You are being a little confusing...
2007-03-24 07:34:59 · answer #2 · answered by Mia1385 4 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Your question is a little confusing. I'm guessing that your sister is having 2 birthdays? One with her family and one with her friends in a restaurant? You can go to the family one no problem but she should be the one to decide if you go to the restaurant one. It's her birthday and she gets to invite who she wants to. You shouldnt be going just to see the one you love-this party is just to celebrate your sister's birthday, not for you to meet up with people. But if you really want to go, ask your sister if you can go. She should be nice enough to let you go, especially if your brother and cousins are going. Doesn't she consider you a friend? My sister and I are best friends.
2007-03-24 07:36:44 · answer #3 · answered by Amanda 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I was your sister I would not want you turning up to p*ss on my parade. If you respected your sister you wouldn't be so selfish. The object of your 'love' will still be about the day after. Give your sis a break and let her enjoy her birthday.
2007-03-24 07:43:05 · answer #4 · answered by keefer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really don't understand your question. Have you and your sister had an altercation or something that would prevent you from going? Have you asked her? It seems to me that if its my sister then I should be able to go to her party. Is she older? I don't know I say go and if she wants you to leave then leave but at least you'll get a glimpse at the person you love.
2007-03-24 07:35:28 · answer #5 · answered by Babygirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never go somewhere uninvited. You'll look and feel stupid. Talk to your sister about it first. If she says "no" then do not show up. If she's 26 she probably wouldn't want her 17 year old sister hanging out with her friends, but you should talk with her first.
2007-03-24 07:58:47 · answer #6 · answered by sweetsar99 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'd go and just play it by ear. If it seems that a big production is going to be made about your being there, then don't make a scene and just leave quietly.
If you can kind of blend in and not cause trouble and no one seems to be annoyed with you then stay and worship your love from afar.
2007-03-24 07:38:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know, personally, I don't think you should go, BUT, if there really are a lot of people there, however, this person should truly be the person you love, not lust after, if this is truly someone you love, then I would say to go. I wish you the best of luck.
2007-03-24 07:35:16 · answer #8 · answered by JesusLovesMe! 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
not sure what you are talking about, and not sure what this has to do with general pregnancy and parenting.
you want to go to your sister's birthday to see the person you love. is that your sister? and is it your sister who doesn't want you there or a different person?
2007-03-24 07:38:12 · answer #9 · answered by thunder2sys 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would ask her to allow you to go. You don't want to cause any bad blood no matter the reason. Family is the most important thing.
2007-03-24 07:33:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Never interfere with your sister's birthday party
2007-03-24 07:34:23 · answer #11 · answered by gaviscon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋