I've been missing a girl for 11 months. I hadn't been bugging her since she didn't want to talk to me anymore. We said hi occasionally, I thought things would be cool between us. I tried to talk to her. I said Hey how are you? She said nothing. I tried to talk about how she was helping with something (she was inactive at the moment). Still nothing. I told her I know we haven't talked in the longest time (I liked her, then fell in love with her, but she never liked me back), but I only wanted us to be friends again. I couldn't bring myself to say I missed her because it seemed like she wasn't hearing me. She kept her back turned towards me, unlike when I saw her sneak so many glances at me this past year. She texted on her phone. She never even looked at me, never said a word. I wanted to say what I felt about her, but all my feelings about her besides "I love you" wouldn't come up. I wanted to say I love you. I just said "ok, I get the point, you don't have to say anything else.
2007-03-24 07:29:15 · 8 answers · asked by Icebox -0: Never Again 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I guess I'll just see you around." Then I left. I'm wondering what should I do for her birthday next week? I'm going to ask her friends what kind of gifts she likes. I think I probaly should just tell her happy birthday to show that I remember. Maybe I shouldn't even say that. After that, I'm forgetting all about her because ain't nothin ever gon change. I've been hurt before by crushes every single time, but this is the first time I've fallen in love. I learned something though; just because a girl seems like she has everything I've been looking for, doesn't mean she's the girl for me. She could change up anytime. I'm never leaving myself open for getting hurt by falling in love again, because I'm not giving her my heart until she earns it. This is the first time I've fallen in love but it's the last straw, the last time I try to be someone for somebody. Like my names says from this song, I got this Icebox where my heart used to be.
2007-03-24 07:29:29 · update #1
Love is so complicated. My suggestion is for you to just leave her totally alone. She clearly doesn't care about you which is probably her loss. But, you can't let her ruin your heart forever. I know how much it hurts when someone you love hurts you, but you can't let this one girl make you never fall in love again. You should be more cuatious, but their are so many people out there, and i'm sure a great guy. Its amazing what time can heal.
2007-03-24 07:37:54 · answer #1 · answered by a_blossom_91 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i must be real tough for u but running after someone wont make her fall in love with u.... love is a feelin that comes by itself... u dont do nything to make love happen!! so ur sayin that u wont open ur heart to someone wont do u ny good but wud constantly remind u of this pain ...so y not try letting it go and not think of fallin in love ever again....coz when the right person arrives u wouldnt even notice how and when u fell in love again..and u wudnt even remember the pain u suffered!! coz everyone has someone in this world for them u just have to trace the right person out!!don't give up just now coz u have suffered rejection....be man enuf to face it and emerge a stronger person who cud take nythin in life that comes his way and be not blown away by it even if its rejection!!
2007-03-24 14:38:09 · answer #2 · answered by mona s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm so sorry to hear all of this. but this isn't a case of playing hard to get. i really think that you should just completely let go. it'll make you feel better if you at least find somebody else. i'm sure there are girls out there that like you. go to parties, etc. you can't get caught up on one girl that doesn't feel the same as you. it's happened to all of us. if this has been going on for almost a year, you need to say to yourself that it's never going to work out. if you tell yourself that, it's easier to get over her.
good luck!
2007-03-24 14:34:30 · answer #3 · answered by DivaHawk 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont' give up i think this girl is realy shy ! you need to go up to her and say somting other than hi try you have a beautiful smile tell her you have this huge crush on her and you would like to go out some time ! this would eb great for her birthday get her some red roses or her favorite flowers and tell her ! i wish the best for you !God bless! ,Heather
2007-03-24 14:39:44 · answer #4 · answered by must_love_dogs_and_me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to tell u this bro but girls are girls, they ain't gonna all the sudden go for u! You have to show her that you area na amazing GUY! OR the other option is just to let her go! There are plenty of girls out there!
2007-03-24 14:39:13 · answer #5 · answered by Kate 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chill out dude, don't be so whiny. Don't get in a depressive self loathing funk.You will find that nobody will ever want to be around you.
2007-03-24 14:32:25 · answer #6 · answered by MayerDave 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
slow down, now. you're walkin' a fine line between weirdo and stalker. don't try and talk 2 her anymore. just accept the fact it is what it is and move on
2007-03-24 15:12:20 · answer #7 · answered by baybeegrl5 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aww poor thing...but wake up--
There are other girls out there that will actually aknowledge you and not be a brat when your talking...
2007-03-24 14:35:21 · answer #8 · answered by Danielle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋