do girls actually care about anythin but size and experience?

Question

i just finished my first relationship, but she broke it up just because she was my first gf so i started to wonder, so can someone help me and b honest...im tired of all this bs

Answer 1

r u serious!!!! duh!! i care about personality over everything else.

Answer 2

Of course we do. Are you kidding me? If she broke up with you, it's not because she didn't like the size of your pe*is, so stop telling yourself that. I used to date a guy for about 2 years and he had the smallest ...ahem....appendage..... that I had or still have ever been with, and he was and still is (even though we haven't been together for 6 years) the best sex I've ever had. The BEST. A combination of things are important. It sounds like your question is aiming more towards the sexual aspect of a relationship so I'll stick with that right now. Personality and sense of humor are THE most important things in a man. And of course the way he respects me. Respect is very important. How you kiss a girl and press her against you, how you LOOK at her, that's important. Passion is key. Kissing can be very very sensual thrilling foreplay as well. It's my personal favorite. If she is your first gf don't even sweat it, there will be PLENTY more and you'll learn something new with each one. The best kisser doesn't have to have a lot of experience either. Good kissing isn't just in the mouth, it's in your head and how you're feeling at the moment as well.
Hope this helps, and don't worry, she probably wasn't good enough for you anyways.

Answer 3

Size is important only in that it seems like men with big ones rely too much on the size on not on foreplay. I've never experienced someone that was unusually small so I can't say what it was like. Most men fall within a normal range that seems to be just fine. Experience matters because it isn't all about sex. It is also about maturity and consideration in the relationship. We all had to go through the dating experience. Some of us just have to date more people than others. It sucks but it just is. Take what you learned from this and work on your "problem" areas in your next relationship. Talk about sex with your partner openly if that is what you think the problem was. Maybe the problem was that you weren't considerate and thoughtful. This is important in sex and relationships. Little things like making sure the toilet seat is down, replacing the toilet paper, telling her she looks nice when she has a new haircut (noticing is big), carrying her luggage at the airport, pitching in to help with various chores, watching that she gets in the door safely when you drop her off, making sure she is warmed up (foreplay) before you go charging into sex. These are all things to consider. Consideration will make you a better lover and a better person!

Answer 4

First off if a girl dumps you b/c you dont have much experience or something similar like SIZE then she isnt worth your time. You dont want a girl like that anyway b/c more than likely if you dont have much and she dumps you b/c of it then that means she has had PLENTY and that means she could have some serious STD's going on. Where i come from we have name for those kind of girls.

I am 25 years old. I like to think im not old..LOL but i have been told i was old...anyway, when i was in high school i was not experienced at all. I have been with 3 guys my whole life. All were long term relationships. The guy i lost it to when i was 17. We were together for 3 1/2 years off and on quite often. Then, my ex husband. Dated him from 11th grade on. Then when i was 19 i met my current husband. And thats it.

I was known as a goody goody in high school. Such a goody goody that some girls who were jealous would have to make up lies about me to make me look bad...BUT it made them look bad in the end.

And i say jealous b/c my ex hubby was this very hunky guy who was very popular with the girls. It showed when i caught him cheating on me numerous times. Anyway, i was this long haired natural blonde, i was 5'3" and only weighed 105 pounds soaking wet. I was a tiny little thing. Wore a size 0-1. And then on top of all that i was nice to everyone. A lot of girls cant stand that. I was not hot by no means but i was sincere and honest and i had a lot of friends b/c of that.

Dont be with someone to prove them wrong. Dont be with them if they think you arent "big enough". And definitely dont be with them if they dont want you b/c you are not experienced like they are.

I hope you get my point. Good luck.

Answer 5

Im my boyfriends first girlfriend and he just asked me to marry him. Theres nothing wrong with having little experience, personally i like it, less experience tells me more about a guy then how many chicks he's slept with. Plus i dont have to worry about the ex coming around. No girl that truly wants a relationship cares about size. You just need to try again. We arent all like her and we arent all the same. Some of us are just bad fish, but dont label all of us because of her. Someone will come along. Its better to have less experience than to be considered a player! Good luck.

Answer 6

as a girl i can say yes we do thing about other things, most young girls are into looks, so makeup, clothes, fashions etc are their gig, but serious girls are into long term relationships as u are, they think of job, money, housing, typical life stuff. Hope this gives u something to start with, u can also tell by what they say, if they seem too sex orientated, the either they want it bad or not, but if they say no, they mean it. either way they probably not a stable type for long terms. Look for a girl that uses her head not looks, and shows she likes u not ur wallet. Go by that and u'll be ok.

Answer 7

Let me ask u this, What type of girls r u dating in order to even think about this? We care a lot about how guys feel, sexual things don't really matter, well not for me. If you love a person you try working things out, no matter what it is. Experience shouldn't even matter either because who can u say is actually well experienced? Come on, r u insecure of yourself? If this girl said something stupid to you, forget her, she's not worth it. Look for girls that care for who u r and not for what u have or don't have.

Answer 8

Size actually doesn't matter. Only the first few inches of the vagina can actually feel anything and a large one can hit the cervix which isn't pleasureable at all. Experience is more important than size, so keep practicing!!

Answer 9

i'll tell you what i think. size is a bit important, but it's not the end all be all, if you know what i mean. there are more important aspects of a relationship than how big he is. and experience...the more experience he has, the more of a jerk he tends to be. you know, the type of guy that does it all the time and lets everyone know. i want a guy that either had one serious relationship and had only done it with that one girl, or is a virgin. i prefer virgin.

you'll find a girl that's not so materialistic. i can bet on that!

Answer 10

Ron A is right. most girls (the kind that you actually want to have real relationships with any way) care about personality and how a guy makes them feel before anything else. size and experience dont really matter at all to most girls.... at least they dont to me...

Answer 11

Some girls do yes. Well actually most girls do. I mean she probably didn't break up with you for that reason, she probably broke up with you because she figured since she was your first g/f that you would want to go out with other people before you found the person you wanted to be with.