i like this girl and like i dont wanna go out with her. im young 16. lol. we've tlked and said its gd to just have fun insted bu like im embarassed coz shes not exactly a girl my mates would go out with. wht should i do
2007-03-24 07:14:31 · 7 answers · asked by littleyellowspider07 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Go with your heart and what makes you feel happy. Is it this girl or your mates? At any age, you should be able to enjoy the company of both. But dont be dictated to by either this girl or your mates. Know your own mind and go with it.
2007-03-24 07:32:27 · answer #1 · answered by hollyb20 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's hard, because you are so young, if you were over 20 I'd say stuff your mates, they are not important, or not as important as a suitable g/f. But since you are only 16 it's hard to call, you can't really dump your mates at this age, because this is when you do a lot of social growing and you do that best in a pack, you learn from each others as well as your own mistakes.
But then again, if you don't want it to be serious, there is nothing wrong with the odd date, as you don't really need to see your mates everyday. There is nothing wrong with enoying this girls company without it having to get serious.
2007-03-24 07:23:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
a sturdy respond, yet you won't have the capacity to promise to be 'acquaintances' or something. that is like 'promising to constantly love somebody' mutually as you haven't any longer have been given any theory in simple terms the way you will experience approximately her / him a week away, or a month or a three hundred and sixty 5 days away. if she in simple terms 'threw away your notice', then i'm sorry, yet you will superb settle for it as a demonstration of a loss of the two emotional and psychological adulthood ....because it became a merciless thank you to act in the direction of you or everyone who wrote a ''being concerned'' notice. in simple terms say to her ~ in case you desire and have the possibility to, 'i'm sorry which you're feeling the way you do', then walk away. attempting to work together her in communique is in all likelihood to get you the two nowhere at that factor, or into greater uncomfortable behaviours from her contained sooner or later (I write from some adventure in it). Take care. Sash.
2016-10-01 10:27:15 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You mean she's not a girl your mates would ADMIT to going out with? In reality, at 16, they'd probably all go out with anyone who showed any interest in them. If she's prepared to hang around with someone who's embarassed to be seen with her, in any capacity, then either count yourself lucky or her especially lacking in self esteem.
2007-03-24 07:19:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honesty is ALWAYS the best policy. Don't tell her what she wants to hear just for the sake of it. Explain why you don't want a relationship, and that you just want a good female mate. Lying will cause hurt, and nobody wants that. She will like you for your honesty! Good luck!!!
2007-03-24 09:10:21 · answer #5 · answered by adamseymourdavies 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly your mates aren't going with her, if you are worried about what others think of your chose of friends you should not be thinking of a friendship with her. Grow up mate!!!
2007-03-24 07:27:53 · answer #6 · answered by dover56dover 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its got nothing to do with your mates.Stay friends
2007-03-24 07:19:53 · answer #7 · answered by Ollie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋