Should i make this man my life even tho he live miles and miles away from me?

Question

I met this dude while i was n skool. he's from ohio and im from chicago. i kno that we wouldnt beable 2 work this out after he's finish with skool cuz i just began. i like him so much tho

Answer 1

Long distance is not conducive to a good relationship, don't think it's gonna work.

Answer 2

you two should just be friends. I know it's easy to believe that a relationship can be made and held togehter by IM and the telephone.. but it can't. Once one of you can drive maybe you could viset each other, but even when you can viset each other, it's not the same as seeing them often. Maybe the next time you see him he'll be all different, even though on IM he say seem the same. A person can easily go from Nerdy, to Druggie, to Dummy, to Smarty throughout the course of a year's time. My friend moved away, ans we're still friends, but now... yeah, i still like him and all that, but he's not really my type anymore =/
Don't let this man be your life. Look for one that's a little closer to home and to you.

Answer 3

Be cautious! My friend had a long distance relationship. The visits were always great and she thought she had met the one. So, she got married, moved all the way across the country, away from all her friends and family. He turned out to be the total opposite from the way he portrayed himself. Now she is in the middle of a divorce. Its easier for people to hide their true selves in long distance relationships.

Answer 4

I am sorry to tell you long distance doesn't work at any point in time cause you don't know that they wont end up cheating on you.. he may say he isn't but the fact is that he will end up cheating on you no matter where he is at or what e is saying.. i been there cheated on used and abused.. i am here in Arizona and i dared someone who was in utah and anotehr guy who was in indiana for a while but it never worked o ne ended up hurting me and abusing me and the other one ended up cheating on me with another girl and marrying her while engaged to be married to me and he had a child with her after a week or two..

Answer 5

no i don't believe in long distance relationship you both live in different areas dint you get lonely? so you know he will be lonely and guess what a phone call wont do it. my best advice if it is meant to be you both will be together but for now i would recommend being good friends because you will ruin it back thinking all the time he is cheating on you and it will lead to arguments and ruin what might of been a good relationship so for now i would just stay in contact but you can let him know that you would like both of you to be to gether in the future but when you both can reside in the same location

Answer 6

The best way to know is to put your love to the test. If you really love that person then it's worth trying. See how far you can go. But still be "open" for possibilities. The right man for you could be just within your neighborhood.

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Answer 7

If you really like him, you will find accommodations for him, you will find special times to see one another and eventual compromise a moving sitution if things get serious...compromise!

Answer 8

i think u should keep in contact with her and try to talk clearly about your views about her then wait for his reply.if he also likes you then you both can decide for your life.all the best!

Answer 9

if you like him that much and he likes you that much then i would go for it
it all depends if you want a broken heart or love

Answer 10

Yeah, you'd have to write each other and it's clear you can't spell.

To bad.

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