met this girl on the internet and we have all in common and it turned out that I had her for a class in school, but she was always with her friends and I am very shy so i didn't speak to her during school, but once we got home we chatted for hours, and I thought it was something special until we went out to vacations two weeks ago, everything changed I was thinking that we were going to chat in the internet even more than before and I was planning to ask her out by the internet, but everything changed she stopped chatting with me all of the sudden she never logs on, and I have sent her messages asking her how she been and to message me back, but it's useless she won't message me back, it's been three weeks now and she has not sent me messages and I haven't chatted with her all this days, i like this girl but I want to know does anyone think she forgot me or she probably didn't like does anyone has an idea of what might of happened to her? Why is she doing this?
2007-03-24 06:54:48 · 21 answers · asked by Vicz101 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I also know that the few times she has logged in she has read my messages but she swon't reply back, I'm very positive she reads them because it's myspace were we chat.
2007-03-24 06:55:18 · update #1
she find someone else
on internet
do the same
2007-03-24 06:58:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is my opinion: For some reason she lost interest. Don't beat your head against the wall wondering what you did wrong because you probably didn't do anything wrong! Evidently you don't have 'all in common' because she doesn't have any manners! If she did, she would have written to you. Just call it a Dear John situation and spread yourself thin with a lot of girls on the Internet. Look back and think about this.....she wouldn't make the time to talk to you in school - I think she was using you. If she does contact you tell her to buzz off!
2007-03-24 14:04:31 · answer #2 · answered by DPL06351 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I kind of think that maybe since talking to her that you took your 'relationship' to a new level, and while talking on the net may be fun, it wouldn't be needed anymore. Have you tried to call or talk to her in real life? If she is ignoring you altogether, something must have happened or she realized maybe she didn't like you after all. I hope that's not the case. I wouldn't try to leave her messages anymore, but try to talk to her in person. You'll feel better about yourself if you let it go, rather than worrying yourself to death over it.
2007-03-24 14:00:53 · answer #3 · answered by merlin_steele 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why dont u talk 2 her in real life instead of messaging? that would help, maybe becuz she wants u 2 talk 2 her normally, not like she's some girl u meet everyday on the internet when u can call her up & ask her out
2007-03-24 14:00:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know this is not what you want to hear, but if she has moved on I do not know what option you have but to just let it go and put your focus on someone else. I know it is not going to be easy for you, because I can see that you really like her. But prolonging the pain is only going to get you hurt more in the long run.She has read your messages so you know she is activily on the cite. What is the point persuing someone who has moved on? Good luck to you hope it all works out for your best intrest.
2007-03-24 14:01:48 · answer #5 · answered by Marie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey don't be be depressed about it! if she really liked u she would not care what her friends think or maybe because of you being shy to talk 2 her when her friends are around she probably thought you weren't worth it. if she doesn't email you back, forget about her, There are many other fishes in the sea. Good luck!
2007-03-24 14:07:45 · answer #6 · answered by sexyren21 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OOO man I have a friend and he is the same like you-I mean he finds girls in chat rooms and then they don't answer him don't call him and e.t.c
The reason she doesn't write you is because she is not interested in you.that's my opinion or probably she has bad time right now,or she is busy.My advice is don't take it too personal just wait and she will answer your messages.The girls don't like to be on pressure.Hope this helps
2007-03-24 14:01:17 · answer #7 · answered by wolfordbg 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shes probably tired of chatting and wants you to start talking to her in real life. remember messaging is not a substitute for talking
2007-03-24 13:58:30 · answer #8 · answered by zimix2004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she has read and ignored your messages, she obviously doesn't want to chat with you anymore. You could try talking to her in real life....
2007-03-24 13:59:10 · answer #9 · answered by vospire s 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try Contacting Her friends by anymeans & try finding out from them, what the real problem is with her. I think u should just try ur best as much as u can to get her back in ur life.GOOD LUCK.Tc.bye.
2007-03-24 14:00:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she chated with you because you was in the same class with her. She accepted to chat because she respect old school and not you. so, she respect her class and not you!
when she talked to you and she thought that you got respect as person from her class, she stop chating to you as friend or lover.
you never was for her more than 'person from her class'. she do not consider you as friend or lover at all. she do not like you at all. she just follow her rule to chat with persons from her old class. she is like computer and your time has left for her.
accept that she do not like you at all.
2007-03-24 14:03:29 · answer #11 · answered by Suchness 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋