I;m crazy about this girl. She sexy and smart and is so much fun to be around with. She understands me and knows how to get me to smile or laugh. I lost my virginity to her and my first kiss. She talks to me about EVERYTHING nothing is a secret between us. She really didn't want a relationship when I ask her awhile back and I was crushed. I stop talking to her for 3 months because it was hard to just be a friend when I wanted love. Finally my best friend helped me out and took me to her place and we talk for a long time. She has a bf now and they been dating for 3 months she isnt sure if she loves him because they been fighting a lot and things arent going great. This past year I havent stop thinking of her. not a day goes by that I dont think of her. I dont know what to do. I;m so confused and just depressed. Now that I;m hanging out with her again what can I do to change her mind? A few of my buddies tell me she still likes me how she acts around me, my girlfriends say that to.
2007-03-24 06:31:07 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You deserve much better than having to convince anyone to love you. Let her work that out herself otherwise she will never be able to stick to the relationship with whole of her heart. Be there as a friend, wait for some more time and since signs are good enough, showing that this girl loves you too but still hasn't realized it enough to accept it herself...you can just renew your proposal once again to her and ask her - "Are you sure you still don't want me, after not finding your true love yet and me waiting for you for so long all this time?" But be proud enough to give a sweet smile after the proposal. If you try this say after one or two months, I bet you'll get the girl. But you have to make her realize what she missed when she spurned you off by just being sweet, friendly and polite to her all that time without trying to get too near to her.
2007-03-24 06:39:12 · answer #1 · answered by Smriti 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This girl knows your waiting around for her and it's killing your chances. I would spend less time around her and create some competition. Ask another girl out on a date and make sure she finds out via friends. Then do it again and again. I guarantee she will come running when she thinks she might lose you.
Dating other girls will also build your confidence, which is very sexy.
2007-03-24 13:43:08 · answer #2 · answered by hannahbean 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should have it out with her once and for all. Get some closure. You have nothing to lose. Tell her again and if she says yes great, however if she says no then tell her gently you cant stay friends with her untill you stop having feelings for her. Either way mate get some closure or you will be preventing yourself from meeting another nice girl.
2007-03-24 13:42:30 · answer #3 · answered by Grace 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey cheer up! May be things will come your way. Just be friends with her and she will realize that she made a mistake of letting you go.
2007-03-24 13:38:17 · answer #4 · answered by pam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you want her back!
& that you would give or do anything to have her back in your arms, just tell her how you feel about her! Tell her every thing, make her melt with your words.
Good luck man
2007-03-24 13:37:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its going to hurt like hell but its time to let go. dont try because your gonna end up getting even more attached :(
2007-03-24 13:35:17 · answer #6 · answered by Jessica 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if she really loves you like you love her then shell dump her boyfriend and come to you if she dosnt she obviously dosnt feel the same way and you need to get over her
2007-03-24 13:40:30 · answer #7 · answered by brd N 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm
she'll come back
2007-03-24 13:38:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
THERE R PLENTY OUT THERE
2007-03-24 13:35:45 · answer #9 · answered by begum 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋