Ok, this guy liked for 2 yrs now, and i like bak but he doesnt no it. So, he asked me out yesterday and now i dont no wat to say. Everyone in my class is like y wont u answer his question? come on! and i dont wat tto do and aaah. if i say no i will regret and he might go on and like a different girl. i want to say yes btu the words wont come out and it just cant do it. How can i get over my nerves?
2007-03-24 06:19:05 · 18 answers · asked by Jessica L 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
SAY YES!!
ur putting him through hell and thats not fair
just take a deep breath, go up to him, and say:
I Like You To
2007-03-24 06:23:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Think. What is holding you back? Is there a reason why you think it could never work?
If not, it's probably just your nerves. You probably just can't believe it's happening. It's happened to me before. My 2nd bf asked me out on the football field in front of all his friends and I couldn't even answer. But this wait is probably killing him. Call him- or if you can't even do that- write a note or an email and do it quickly before you break his heart! If you think you'd regret saying no, u don't want to lose him.
2007-03-24 13:24:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask one of ur friends to be there when u answer him then if u get nervous shell say yes 4 u either that or come up with the courage to just say yes its just a three letter word besides its not like hes asking u to marry him just go 4 it. Good Luck!!!
2007-03-24 13:57:12 · answer #3 · answered by blah! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To get over your nervousness, you should think about how you will feel after you say yes (good) and how you would feel if he choose another girl (bad). Also, take some slow deep breaths and tell yourself that your in control of your nerves. These things will help you in all stressful activities, not just this one.
2007-03-24 13:25:27 · answer #4 · answered by Michael H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u really like this guy, girl go for it don't lack it cause' he might get tired of waiting 4 amd answer. He already asked u out, all u have to do is say "yes" Poor guy don't make him wait, **** if u have his number call him up and tell him. Shyness and nervousness won't get u no where.
2007-03-24 13:39:30 · answer #5 · answered by grissy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the same thing happened to me before. just take a deep breath and think. how much do you really like him? if the thought of him with another girl really bothers you then it must be alot. so take a deep breath and take the plunge. take a chance on love. if he has likes you and you like him, well you have your answer on what to do. just take a deep breath and go with your insticnt. tell your nevers to go to hell and give it a go,or else you might end up regreting it like you said.
2007-03-24 13:24:43 · answer #6 · answered by simply_suductive89 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound very young and very insecure. Either go out with him or forget him. Give things a little more time to develop. You will know when to say yes.
2007-03-24 13:25:48 · answer #7 · answered by radar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u like him n if he likes u, try it out! If he already asked u out, he probably did the gut thing! All u gotta say is 'yes' or 'no' depending on whether u wna date him or not. Good luck!
2007-03-24 13:22:23 · answer #8 · answered by Winnie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give a sweet smile ! it will b enough. or just write a letter n tell one of urs common friend to pass it.
hmmmm I can C that smile!
2007-03-24 13:24:05 · answer #9 · answered by sherry 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say yes! If he asked you out he's obviously interested. You have no reason to be nervous! Go for it! :-D
2007-03-24 13:22:08 · answer #10 · answered by Kim H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋