I know i'm still young but all my friends have nice boyfriends or close male friends to make them feel loved! I just feel lonely and unloved!
This probably makes me sound desperate? am i?
I'm staring to think that people are thinking i'm a lesbian! :O HELP!!!
2007-03-24 06:15:39 · 26 answers · asked by chelsiexkiss 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no worries ther is someone out there for you. y not try going to new clubs or cinemas with friends. chances are a cute buy will spot you and come over to talk. but keep your options open and dont dive in straight away.
2007-03-24 06:25:48 · answer #1 · answered by Tilly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time is the best healer. don't worry if u r single for 2 yrs, being a single u r knowing n learning a lot of things that u would never have learned if u had a boyfriend, but atleast u no now the feelings of being single, but that is not for long, u r going to have a very good friend, the longer the time the better the options for u to chose a handsome guy for you.n don worry about what people say, they always say something even if u had a boy friend, remember freedom of speech.
2007-03-24 06:27:38 · answer #2 · answered by John 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree with some of the others.. get out and there and meet new people.. take up a new hobby or a new class, whatever.. sometimes love knocks on your door when you least expect it.. it may feel a little lonely for now but just get out there and get to know more friends.. you're probably feeling this way because you're surrounded by friends who are attached and stuff but in truth there are actually many singles out there.. people are not going to think you're a lesbian just because you're single..
2007-03-24 06:44:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel desperate, then y are u single? Y don't u start dating again? Y single from 2 years? N plz don't bother about what ppl think! Do what ur heart says!! If u feel lonely, it'll be better to find a suitable partner. Good luck!!
2007-03-24 06:20:37 · answer #4 · answered by Winnie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The thing to get in your mind Chelsie is to start being good to yourself, regardless of whether you have a boyfriend or not.
Do the things YOU want to do go out meet with your friends (insist that for once they drop the boyfriends) and enjoy yourself.
Be confident in the fact that you can do practcally anything YOU want at anytime you want.
Being self sufficient is an extremely attractive quality and it will inevitably draw the right people to you. At that point you can pick and choose!
It can't promise it will be a quick thing - but it will be satifying once you get there!
Take care
2007-03-24 06:54:13 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't need a boyfriend to feel loved. I'm sure you have good friends and family you can spend time with. Just coz your mates have boyfriends, doesn't mean you have to, and you shouldn't care what people think as long as you know they're wrong it shouldn't matter!
You shouldn't feel you need a boyfriend, but if you realy want one, try getting to know some boys first and building a friendship with them, don't just dive straight in there coz you'll probably scare them off!!
Good luck xx
2007-03-25 03:53:23 · answer #6 · answered by Gemma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing is wrong with your being single. and no you do not sound desperate nor being single for 2 yrs means other will think you are a lesbian. If you want to meet someone go to places were you know single guys hang out. perhaps if you like someone you should approach him instead of you waiting for him to approach you. sometime you have to put yourself out there meaning go out with friends and mingle you never know you may find mr. right under the nose.
2007-03-24 06:25:02 · answer #7 · answered by Denese 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
o girl im in the same position, im like so friggin lonely and look at all the pple with their pretty boyfriends and girlfriends...and then im like over here all alone...its a bummer... i guess im not the best person to give advice if i cant take my own..but how i think, and what makes me feel good, is that there is at least more than one person in your school that would date you in a heart beat, i mean there has to be, out of all those people, i garuntee there are at least two that would...soo thats a confidence booster...so just flaunt what you got...but in a polite manner, and just wait...cuz wen u rush it...it never works out...well hope this helped some how
2007-03-24 06:23:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't pay any attention to what people think.
it's how you feel that's important.
what you are going to do is find something new to learn..outside of school...or work..
try a new hobby..get interested in something that you always wanted to learn...
develop the person within.
you will concentrate on something new..and you might meet a nice guy along the way.
being single is allright..there is nothing wrong with it.
you are learning how to be with yourself...
it makes you stronger.
don't settle for any guy..only go out with the right ones!
you will meet someone..with whom you can have a lovely relationship...
but until then....you will go out and enjoy life!
2007-03-24 06:32:47 · answer #9 · answered by manhattanmaryanne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been single for 5 years! So what? Enjoy it! Also, the more you try and get a relationship the more it shows. Just enjoy it, and a man will come along in no time!
2007-03-24 09:14:32 · answer #10 · answered by adamseymourdavies 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋