On a scale from 1 - 10 (10 being very important) How important is sex in a marriage? Does it keep a relationship going?
2007-03-24 06:13:09 · 14 answers · asked by Chris J 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The quality not the quantity as in anythng is key. Don't just do the missionary all the time. Spontaneity, keep it interesting & exciting.
2007-03-24 06:16:53 · answer #1 · answered by COblonde 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From my own point of view, I'll rate sex as 9. Why? Many hypocrites will tell you that it's love that is important than marriage (that's the number 10) but I think it is also sex, or shall I call it "making love". If one of the partners feel that they wanna make love and the other feel that it is boring, then there is a problem they must solve. Marriage will not last long since one of them is sexually active (usually men) and the partner could not give what he/she needs. Usually, that's the time when one of them looks for another partner to do "it". I remember one of my clients having with this kind of problem. I saw her picture before and I was surprised when I look at her now 'coz she really looks messed up. Then I asked her what happened and told me that even if you are a very attractive woman and have a loving husband (before, as what she knew and observe) if you're lousy in bed, you're marriage will not last long. Well, I hope I'm wrong with this kind of answer, 'coz if not, marriage couples should be knowledgeable on how to be pleasurable and exciting in bed!!
2007-03-24 08:42:32 · answer #2 · answered by BuTTerFly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex n marriage does not keep the relationship going but it keeps the relationship ALIVE. U need good sex it is embed n every human species. U need sex but u need more than that. here r the rating: Trust-10, good sense of humor-8, financially stable- 10+10+. Good sex irreplaceable cause u need 2 feel intimate and connected and atrracted 2 your mate in order 4 u 2 not wonder else-where. SEX-rating %100 percent. Being able 2 communicate about sex honestly with your partner- PRICELESS.
2007-03-24 06:25:39 · answer #3 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
9
2007-03-24 06:16:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
10. Lots of couples are always working or busy with their children so there isn't any time. Communication is just as vital as sex, but you have to have both to keep the relationship going strong. If you suffer these problems get a baby sitter and she/ he can bring the kids to her house if it's someone you trust. Plan a date night where it's just the two of you alone.Good luck.
2007-03-24 06:22:06 · answer #5 · answered by Blue eyed girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
9.5 Sex is one of the important factors in a marriage. It does help keep up part of the intimate factor of the relationship, but sex doesn't make the marriage last.
2007-03-24 06:19:49 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
10! Obviously it is important. Healthy sex is integral to a marriage. Don't let it be too often. Have a balanced n healthy sex life!!
2007-03-24 06:18:48 · answer #7 · answered by Winnie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it does for one of the genders. I will give it an 8 1/2
2007-03-24 06:17:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's right up there at the top. The more sex you can have makes that bond even stronger, its prov-en fact that couple's that don't have sex don't get along.
Mix it up a little...Kick the old fashion and add some spice!
Try the vibrating penis ring to start.
2007-03-24 06:25:54 · answer #9 · answered by rfrizz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on how sex craze the couple are.i mean sex isnt everything.whats more important is how you two get along and work togeather,but in some cases,sex can make a difference.
2007-03-24 06:19:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋