there is this guy that i have been on an off with for like 6 months and hes had girlfriends but he would cheat on them with me and i would cheat on my boyfriends with him but wu never seemed to get around to be dating again he still tells me he loves me but then there is other days where he just acts like he hates me. what should i do?
2007-03-24 06:11:19 · 14 answers · asked by missbaize_3 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you both have a problem if you are cheating on your b/f/g/f. Not sure what your reason is, but his is probably the sex.
So, get over him, and decide if you want to be with your present b/f or not. If you are cheating on him, he's not the one for you!
2007-03-24 06:17:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is simple, move on. Both of you are just ruining the relationship. You both have cheated on each other, and not to mention your other bfs and gfs. Its all a big mess now. It seems like you guys cant be in any stable relationships. If you feel the need to be with someone else, please just break up with them. Nobody should deserve to be cheated behind their backs. It will come out really complicated with a lot of problems if you cheat. Also, I wouldnt believe that guy when he says he loves you because he's going on and off and immediately gets with another girl, within 6 months. If he still had feelings for you, even if you guys break up, he shouldnt have gone out with new girls. Its really messed up that he and you are playing with your bfs and gfs' emotions.
2007-03-24 06:23:49 · answer #2 · answered by =P 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you should get over him and move on. However, no relationship is going to be healthy if there is a lot of cheating going on. It kind of sounds like neither one of you really still wanna be in the relationship, but nobody wants to step forward to break it off. Someones gotta do it, so it might as well be you...you can't save a dead flower ya know
2007-03-24 06:16:07 · answer #3 · answered by chocolatechip333 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DON'T GO FOR THIS GUY. I was once the girl a guy cheated with and I felt so ashamed. The big no-no. I knew his girlfriends. I felt like crap. Don't persue him, you'll end up just like his present girlfriends
2007-03-24 06:23:23 · answer #4 · answered by Evelyn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You deserve someone much better then that. You might be cheating on the wrong person. This guy just see's you has a booty call or someone he knows he could just hook up with. He probably doesn't see you as girlfriend material. Please dont get your feelings hurt. Please just leave stop talking to him. You are better then that. :)
2007-03-24 06:17:00 · answer #5 · answered by scoopie110 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get over him...oh wait, you can't do that if you don't get over yourself first. What are you thinking when when you cheat on other people with him? its not fair. You guys need to get together or stay away from eachother all in all because you are not being fair to other people.
2007-03-24 06:16:56 · answer #6 · answered by kiwi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this guy is sticking around for some reason - he doesn't really want u for a permanent relationship. Get over him unless u aren't looking for a serious relationship.
2007-03-24 06:19:45 · answer #7 · answered by bre l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to find out whats making your bf so fickle minded,,,does he have any issues with his past?Is he insecure of something?etc,,,,,If nothing is wrong then maybe its only stress,seek an advise from your pastor,mentor or elders,Try to hang out somewhere you havent try,,,,Think of something new,,,If you've done everything to fully understand him and nothing happens then move on,But always remember to pray for holy guidance in all your decisions
2007-03-24 06:17:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should first get over him, n u shouldnt b cheating in e first place. if ur claim is tat u do it to spite him, then eh hmm, u need to really really get over him.
2007-03-24 06:15:45 · answer #9 · answered by kai 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your his little call girl now...When needs a piece of *** guess who he calls??? Also remember if he's ******* other chick's your looking for trouble. Most pills or shots cure most!!!
2007-03-24 06:19:25 · answer #10 · answered by rfrizz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋