He wants me to marry him and spend his last 6months or so he has left to live with him, he is unable to have sex anyways so that wouldnt be part of the deal, he wants a friend basically. But I feel its wrong to do that but even his doctors who visit him are saying Im an idiot why am I working 60hours a week when I could be set for live this year. Would it be wrong what is your opinion?
2007-03-24 06:06:43 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i would do it. give up your job, fullfill a dying man's last request. go for it and you wont live the rest of your life in regret.
2007-03-24 06:26:46 · answer #1 · answered by got force? 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do what ur heart says! Don't break any laws! In personal opinion, marry only if u are in love, not cuz of money, but still if u feel like it, be sure to have all the pros n cons in front of u. Make sure all dis ain't a bluff! Good luck!
2007-03-24 13:14:39 · answer #2 · answered by Winnie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a question for you to answer. Only you know what is best for yourself in this situation. If you don't want to marry him just be his friend. If you feel guilty about the money just donate it to a charity. Don't do it just because everyone is telling you too. Sit down and write a list of pros and cons. Which ever you feel best about when you are done that is what you should do.
2007-03-24 13:13:49 · answer #3 · answered by invictus 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the most important thng is what do u think?any 1 could hav said somethin bad about u but the most important thing is if u think it is worth to do it n u will nv hav any regret in ur life then do it ,4get about anything that other ppl say about u . since u hav a made a decision u don need to put this question here to ask 4 opinion cz u hav already hav the answer.
2007-03-24 13:13:11 · answer #4 · answered by aeeyo1314 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First - how do you feel? He sounds sweet and lonely and this sounds like a sad situation. You sound a bit young, how old are you?
If you want to be his friend, then be his friend, it sounds like what he really wants and needs.
If you married him and didn't consummate your marriage it could be determined by a court of law should someone fight you for the inheritance that you were never legally married.
Good luck.
2007-03-24 13:16:07 · answer #5 · answered by Sweet Candy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, since he has that sex probolem, then I`d take it. It`s just a 6 month old man visit for a multi millionaire`s money (when he dies) As long as he`s no creep or anything
2007-03-24 13:14:22 · answer #6 · answered by Furious with America 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know, you need to follow your heart. This man might be rich, but dont marry him just for that. And as for him wanting to marry you, just spend time with the old man. He is in his last days. Maby instead of marrying him you could go and see him everyday...read him a book, bring lunch. Just be kind to him and make his last days comfortable.
2007-03-24 13:11:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on your morals. If you are asking the question. I think you already know how you feel about it or you wouldn't be asking!
I could never do it unless I really cared for the guy! If you do, then go for it and make his last days happy. If you don't care for him, then you'd be, more or less, selling yourself. Whether there is sex, or not.
2007-03-24 13:13:19 · answer #8 · answered by justlookin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doctors?
Love is blind...It knows no age requirement for it is a gift. Obviously you do not love him. Can you consumate the relationship to make it valid?
Somthing happens spiritually when you have a religious ceremony. Are you prepard to call him husband for all eternity?
JUST ASK HIM TO WILL YOU THE MONEY GRAVE DIGGER!!!!!!!!!!
That is less of a sin...
2007-03-24 13:12:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just do what your heart tells you. Dont let anyone tell you that you are stupid. Dont be with someone for their money. Just be a friend dont take his money. You are probably a good person. Just listen to your heart. that will follow the right thing.
good luck.
2007-03-24 13:13:44 · answer #10 · answered by scoopie110 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We can't comment on your decision or make a recommendation. It will be your personal choice. It is your life. You decide but don't feel guilty of any choice that you make because there are those high names in society who did definitely took one of those choices definitely - either way people still exist.
2007-03-24 13:13:36 · answer #11 · answered by Cant stop thinking 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋