I am really nervous about doing it for the first time! Does it hurt and what can I expect?
2007-03-24 06:02:49 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It burns like hell. make sure he is the right one and that you do love him.This will be something you remember for the rest of your life, make it memorable and don't do it if you're not ready or you'll regret it for the rest of your life.Expect it to be painful and short.
2007-03-24 06:06:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
if your nervous then your not ready yet. its does hurt but how much depends upon the person. usually around the third time theres no pain at all. dont have sheets on the bed that u love. cause u may bleed dont worry its not as bad as it sound. some girls dont bleed and even if u do u wont even notice till after and its not that much. I do have a question for u how old are u. caus eif u are under 17 im gonna really say your crazy and not ready for it. its a big step and can mess a relationship up big time. just remember protection even if he claims he sterile.
2007-03-24 13:15:02 · answer #2 · answered by blackraven254 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I lost my virginity on accident! I thought I loved the guy, but now I'm not sure! He used to be so sweet and amazing, but now we fight non-stop. We sometimes get into physical fights. He asked me to marry him last year on Christmas, I hesitated but told him yes!!! I was pregnant and didn't know until I was about 5 months. I didn't get morning sickness or any of the symptoms, I just stopped my period. I really didn't think anything about it, but I should of!!! I was going to deliver a still-born, but they said I should get a DNC! I was so scared, I was 17 years old and had no clue what was going to happen!!! My boyfriend wasn't so happy when I told him I "was" pregnant, but later when I found out about the baby, he cried!!! I had never seen him cry before. But what I'm trying to say is don't!!! It will only cause pain in the end, even though I was scared and didn't know what was going to happen, I still wanted to have a baby!!! 17 and wanting a baby is horrible, young and stupid! We live together in an apartment now trying to make it through, but we can't even pay the bills if we want to eat!!! Sorry I told you my story but I thought maybe it'd help. I should have waited until I knew I was ready and that he was the one for me!!!
2007-03-24 13:19:06 · answer #3 · answered by ~It's A Boy *Kaiden Avery*~ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
how old are you?
yes it hurts and no it's not going to be plesant. but round the 3rd time you're in for a GREAT EXPERIENCE. just make sure your partner has protection you don't wanna have a baby after your first go round.
just expect some pain. i'ma guy so i dont' know how much pain.
2007-03-24 13:06:09 · answer #4 · answered by M!sta Carter 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are nervous, don't do it. You should feel ready for sex. Be sure you know everything there is to know about birth controll, and sexually transmitted diseases. Don't ask a 15 year old girl about these things. Talk to an adult you can relate to.
2007-03-24 13:08:42 · answer #5 · answered by panwillow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old are you and it depends on that;if you be female;and over 18;experiment;have jelly;condaumes;dont let nothing go in;unless it has rubber on it;or you pay for it later;if under 18;keep your legs crossed;be a virgin;make your parents happy;theres someone out there for you and will love you for you and being a virgin;if you be a male;put a rubber on it;dont get any female PG or you will pay for it;or you might catch something;that ajax couldnt get off;same for females;both wait til you are married;get married if you want sex;otherwise;you both are fair game;be safe and not nervous;there are 50 unmarried females for each male;join the military and see the world;any job;all free;have nice day...
2007-03-24 13:24:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you not sure about it, don't do it. You'll be sorry for it. But if you want to do it because you really want to do, go ahead, but there's many risk that you should to know before. It's maybe hurt for many people, but the most important is you could get HIV from it. Please choose the best for your self.....
2007-03-24 13:43:17 · answer #7 · answered by white jade 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it hurts a little, but the pleasure is worth the pain. If it continues to hurt, use lubricants.
2007-03-24 13:07:01 · answer #8 · answered by free_mumia_or_else 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hehehehehehehehe....poor lady!!
well, i haven't done it yet... but they say it differs from one person to another... it hurts some girls.
lsn up, i have an idea... u see your two middle fingers, let someone pull them suddenly very apart from each other, if it hurt u, then u'll probably be hurt,,if it doesn't, then enjoy the rest of the evening...lol!!
2007-03-24 13:08:36 · answer #9 · answered by Farah K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're afraid it might hurt and don't know what to expect, you shouldn't be doing it....go home and talk to your parents.
2007-03-24 13:06:43 · answer #10 · answered by drgolfmd 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋