I wounder if girls are trustable in friendship or not. You make friend with them and as soon as they start a relationship their friendship fades and and specially if their partner has a possessive manner.
I mean can you expect them to help in hard times if you are a guy?
2007-03-24 05:52:17 · 30 answers · asked by mark 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes girls can be trusted as friends, it is harder when they begin relationships as their guys may not understand why they need another man in their lives but they will always be your friend
2007-03-24 05:55:25 · answer #1 · answered by willt246 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think so.Girls are very trustable or trustworthy. You just have to get the right ones.Just because you might of had some bad experiences, doesn't mean you should think them not to be trustable in Friendships. I talk from the fact that I am a girl and I think myself to be trustable.
2007-03-24 12:59:09 · answer #2 · answered by angel9242004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I find they make better friends in a way. There is a certain line you dont want to cross though. Make sure you establish a distinct line of where your relationship is in your mind or else you may cross it. I find that when i didnt do it id always end up having them getting me into a sexual relationship with them of some sort. Usually that breaks the friendship after a while.
2007-03-24 13:00:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say girls are way more trustable than guys because if you were to tell a guy a secret he would change your words into his words and tell everyone unlike girls you can trust them with your secrets because they are use to keepin them because girls are friends with other girls and trust me they here a lot of secrets and they keep there mouth shut they do not go tell everyone so just to tell you girls are way more trustable than guys and if you are a guy in hard situations you can go to a girl a tell her you need to talk and then tell her your situation and she will give you some advice and hopefully you listen to her advice and if your friendship would ever turn into a boyfrind-girlfriend relationship then give it a try and if you dont think its going good than talk to her and see if she agrees with you if she doesnt than ask her what she likes about the relationship then you tell her whats not working then see if you guys can fix the problem in you relationship and usually in boyfriend-girlfriend relationship the girls feelings gets hurt not the guys so what ever you think is best to do friends or boyfriend-girlfriend??? Its all your choice.Hope this helps you with your question!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-03-24 13:00:10 · answer #4 · answered by cool chick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the girls, some girls cna't keep their mouth shut. I for one am a trustable friend. Infact I have alot of guy friends who will tell me a bunch of stuff, and even ask for my advice. But I've never told anyone about it.
So answer your question yes and no. No some are terrible, yes, some are great.
2007-03-24 12:55:56 · answer #5 · answered by toronto_leafs 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the girl. Some will always put their relationship first, and others will realize friendships are always important, regardless of their relationship status. Hopefully the girls you're friends with are of the second category, and wouldn't date a guy who would demand she spend less time with her friends, even if male.
2007-03-26 16:18:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a girl I say it depends on the girl. There are such thing as preppy snobs who will turn their back on you once they find out you aren't interested in them because some girls who want to be in friendship don't want friendship they want a relationship because they think you're hot. Well anyway there are girls who are good ones. Look for the ones who are outgoing and aren't afraid to be who they are. Good luck bud.
2007-03-24 12:58:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Mark, Yes you can. I am a girl and if you were my friend you could count on me to help if you need me. I respect my friendships with guys or girls and help when i can. Thats what i am make of, help and understanding. A Friend.
Clowmy
2007-03-24 13:00:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some are, some are not. I think it gets easier to maintain friendships as you get older. Maturity and experience help you figure out your place in the world. Once you know & are happy with your place in the world, there's much less of this nonsense with insecurity, possessiveness, jealousy etc.
2007-03-24 12:59:07 · answer #9 · answered by Bramblyspam 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That all depends on you. You have to guide your girl friends through your friendship just as you guide your girlfriend through romance, seduction, or courtship. Also, pick trustworthy friends, and believe the bad signs if you see them. Trust your own instincts.
2007-03-24 12:57:53 · answer #10 · answered by paralegaltechnik 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋