I have a boyfriend online. I did not meet him yet ,but my feelings are very close to him. He often told me i love you,send me sweet cards,sms and even wanted me to see him on summer time.We are not in the same country.He was upfront telling me how much his salary and that his parents will move soon in countryside and that his alone in a big house and that he dont want to be lonesome. I have feelings for him and becauseof my curiousity if his true or not, i opened other chat ID and chatted with him,but he said i love you to others like what he told me.he send same music like what he send to me. Im so confuse if he really is serious to me or what. or maybe his trying to date others since we dont meet yet personally? plssss help i would apreciate any opinions...thanks!
2007-03-24 05:47:32 · 10 answers · asked by Lyncy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i believe with you guys,but you know,i tried to stop chatting with him for 3days now,i just go invisible so he could not see me that im online..there are sometimes when i think about him,that is also same time that his sweet sms arrived with heart icons and all that.I could think that he think of me same time? but it was better that i knew that i am not the only one he told i love you and all those sweet words. I feel really bad after all he told me that he want to share his life with me. I tried so much to take him away out of my mind,but why he still come up in my mind even i dont want it ? i never feel this way before. :-(
2007-03-24 06:56:02 · update #1
by the way,he is Leo and his 33, Im a Saguitarian 25. I admit that i am still naive mostly about relationship:-(
2007-03-24 07:01:59 · update #2
I recently went though this same thing a few months ago and i pretended to be someone else and he was telling me the same thing come to find out he was sexually harrassing a bunch of woman on here my suggestion to u is DO NOT meet with him or talk to him anymore i know it can be very hard.
2007-03-24 06:06:03 · answer #1 · answered by glass_heart07 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im currently going through your situation now, except the guy is in another state, not in another country. And we have never met in person yet. But he's told me that he was planning to make a visit to see me during the summer. We just talk on the phone, when we need to talk. He doesnt do emails or ims because he's always busy. Sometimes I feel like he's possibly cheating on me because we dont talk a lot anymore like when we first got to know each other. Its hard to trust him because I have no idea what he could be doing, even if he tells me. Long distance relationships are extremely hard to be in.
It seems like your online bf is a player. You should just stop talking to him now and forget about him. I mean who knows if this guy might be actually the guy he described to you? He could be a old guy whos not the person he mentioned to you. He could be a molestor or a rapist trying to lure girls to him to be his victim.
Since this guy is not in your country, I wouldnt get too attached to this guy because its not likely he will make a visit to come to see you because the trip alone is very expensive. And its risky for anyone to visit someone who they have never met before, especially in a foreign country. When two people are in two different countries, its an big obstacle to overcome for any relationship. And theres a high chance that both of you will never be together because of the distance.
You have only talked to him through online, so you have no idea wheter this guy is true to you or not. Maybe if you guys talked on the phone, then its more believable that this guy may love you. Its much more sincere when someone talks to you on the phone than IMing or emailing people.
Plus, you said you have created a new ID to chat with him to check if he's really cheating on you. And he did say the same things he said to you as to other people. You know this guy doesnt love you, and you have seen it before your own eyes yourself that he's cheating on you. So move on, he's not worth your time to think about him.
2007-03-24 06:09:15 · answer #2 · answered by =P 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should really be careful. Meeting people online is really not safe at all. To me he sounds like a complete creep and should not try and meet him. It would probably end up turning into one of those creepy old people that are trying to get with younger people. Just be careful.
2007-03-24 05:52:29 · answer #3 · answered by punkxrocker3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's constantly complicated while adult males ruin up with females. They by no ability tell them the actuality why they're breaking up. They lie and make something up usually. each so often in order that as that they do no longer harm your emotions. multiple the time they ruin up by way of fact they want somebody else. unhappy yet genuine. mutually as us females pine for them after a ruin up they're out partying and sleeping with something they see. possibly he reported he's conscious you will make him pay by way of fact he feels somewhat responsible and thinks he merits to pay for what he did to you. possibly a sprint punishment would ease his concience. despite the justifications, you in ordinary terms ought to give up over thinking it and settle for that that's finished. Do something to distract your self mutually as you recover from him and before long it will be all ok returned.
2016-10-01 10:22:53 · answer #4 · answered by vyky 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds dangerous to me and possibly looking to take advantage of someone. Pay attention to your instincts, they are already telling you that something is wrong with this guy. I do not know your age but you appear to be young so please no further correspondence with this Romeo.
2007-03-24 05:53:39 · answer #5 · answered by myleshunt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you really need to ask that question, he is a loser if he is saying the same stuff to other girls, move on, you wont be able to trust him again
2007-03-24 05:52:06 · answer #6 · answered by Charlotte S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is using you. You should stop talking to him asap or something could happen that you may regret.
2007-03-24 05:52:01 · answer #7 · answered by ~*Nicole*~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like he is playing games he either knows that it is you or he trying to be a player.
2007-03-24 05:57:38 · answer #8 · answered by OB the Wolf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u take care girl. check 1st b4 u make another move.
2007-03-24 05:51:40 · answer #9 · answered by aeeyo1314 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call him on it. If he really cared for you, he wouldn't be putting his attention elsewhere.
2007-03-24 05:53:01 · answer #10 · answered by Eastern US Guy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋