All of my friends have had at least 5 boyfriends. I only had 2. I want real answers and not just stuff to get me noticed and looking wierd. All of the good looking and mostly serious guys are over at my old school.
2007-03-24 05:44:37 · 13 answers · asked by Rachael S 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just be yourself.
2007-03-24 05:47:24 · answer #1 · answered by kwanchaiteh 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi Rachael, Why are you wanting to have a lot of boyfriend??? So what if your friends are keeping score of how many B.F. they collect. If you want to have a descent relationship with a guy you need to stop tiring to see how many you can collect. The word will get out that a group of girls are playing a game to see who gets the most B.F. and when you find the right guy you will lose him before it even gets started. Be smart and don't play games when feeling and your future are in site. A Friend.
Clowmy
2007-03-24 12:54:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So what if you have had only two that means you are looking for someone you can be with for awhile your being safe... It doesnt always look good when a girl has had lots of boyfriends... theres always a reason why, be it the girl or the guy... I hope you find what you want and it makes you happy, good luck........
2007-03-24 12:49:28 · answer #3 · answered by Jesse 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How slutty are you willing to be?
Even without being a tease you can get guys simply by talking to them. If you don't make a connection easily forget about them & move onto the next one quickly. Its a grind, but works pretty much anywhere. You'll also get good at flirting real quick.
2007-03-24 12:48:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How 'bout " scoring a point " for yourself that you possibly have value for your own self and care who you share your more personal heart with.
I date less often then I used to as I discovered that I won't accept a date with just anyone. I have come more into my more fuller awareness of what makes me unique and what values I have for my own individual self. Am I better than anyone else ? No...yet, I know what blends with me and I hold to that. I date of quality...not of numbers or just for the sake of having a date or acquiring a boyfriend. Also, think of the guy that you or your friends are out to 'score a guy' with. Keep in mind his feelings that you be aware to be considerate of his real feelings and not with him just to 'score' another boyfriend. And...yes, I know, many (not all) guys don't seem to care as much (expecially when they're teens) that they just want a girl to kiss and touch. Still...be considerate to not just score another guy up as you would not want to be just another girl to score up as another on the link of their conquests.
Don't worry about seeing how to ' score a guy ' and maybe instead focus on notching a score of being true to yourself the guy you share a close warm friendship with or a boyfriend.
You're still young...yet not to early to learn your self value and to stand in your power as a young woman. Care who you share your kisses, friendship and eventually your heart with.
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2007-03-24 12:53:17 · answer #5 · answered by onelight 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's about quantity, not quality, then just go having sex with as many that will let you. Then, you'll be able to boast how you've had more guys (good luck sleeping with yourself after that).
Don't let your friends' more numerous guys give you a head trip, it's all about our own personal standards and who we are willing to be with. If they've had more guys there's a good chance they're not as picky as you (or, maybe they're just easier).
2007-03-24 12:49:03 · answer #6 · answered by wizbangs 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes u r right... Now a days it became a common thing for girls & boys to have as much as GF`s/BF`s.
What I feel is... you don`t look to count your BF`s and try to look how much effectionate your BF to you.
If u r really want to increase your BF`s count, then nothing else.. except u just go to add count day by day as meet new people... Ofcourse me tooooooooo!
2007-03-24 12:55:34 · answer #7 · answered by swaagat143 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless you want a bad reputation, you do not want a lot of boyfriends.
One boyfriend who treats you with respect and like a lady is all you need.
2007-03-24 12:48:47 · answer #8 · answered by Seldom Seen 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you can worry about school instead of boys. boys are nothing just keep yourself confident. this same sentence can be repeated a million times. there is someone out there for you. you shouldnt have to whore yourself to anyone. you will be loved.
2007-03-24 12:48:14 · answer #9 · answered by Big Head 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it doesnt matter how many boyfriends you've had. that's really immature and mean. if you're just looking for guys because you want as many as your friends, that's just sad.
2007-03-24 12:47:21 · answer #10 · answered by Nicolle 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you sound way to young for a meaningless relationship
2007-03-24 12:47:16 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋