how do you approach older women?

Question

so i'm a 25 year old, fairly handsome man and i have a beautiful girlfriend, but she's young, i've always wanted an older women (30-40) but i don't know how to approach them. i have no problems w/ girls my own age but i would like some ideas on how to get older women, any suggestions

Answer 1

Be yourself. Don't try to hard to impress her. Older women can see right through you if you try being something your not. Also ,be prepared to get shot down. Most "older women" are quite particular about the men they date. They can afford to be choosy,they don't need a man as much as want a man.

Answer 2

Hi MH
In USA on personal web sites there is all kinds of women looking for the younger man. You can have my X and I well take yours. You are young and should not have one girl friend you should be playing the field and get it worked out of your system so you can be a good husband to a wonderful wife. You well regret one day not being faith full to the girl you are with today. I have heard it too many times I should have stayed with my first girl friend she was this and that. I made a mistake. First think of your girl friend you have now with an other man making love to her and you can never get her back. Are you OK with that. Then and only then go look for older women. A women at 30 is the best age. I have been with all ages up till 60 and 30s the best they know what they like and stop playing games for the most part at that age.They have experience in the bed room and know what they are doing if they like it they well tell you. Please think twice about this. There is not a second Chance with the girl you are with now.Think of a guy you can not stand making love to your X 25 year old and you are at home having to masturbate. This is what she would do to get even with you. Think many times before you do this. Your girl friend well be 30 and then 40 if you love her right.

Answer 3

You need to be mature and show that you can handle an older woman. Women around (30s-40s) are aleady well matured and responsible adults. Women that old, dont like guys who still play games and have no responsibility. They also want some intelligent guys too.

But Im sure many women that age love young guys like you too. Some women like to go out with younger guys because they have more fun.

So yeah, just be yourself and present yourself with your best manners when you approach them.

Answer 4

there's nothing to approaching older women. In fact it's a tad bit easier than younger women because older women will be somewhat flattered by your interest. You must convey a bit of charm and charisma and make her feel special without overdoing it. She's at a fragile age where she's concerned about her looks and sometimes being validated by a younger man makes her feel alive again. Just stay away from anything cheesy, prescripted or unoriginal and try to notice something about her that stands out to you. Advice from an 'older' man

Answer 5

First of all b mature 2 handle a older woman. Second of all y r u with a younger woman if u prefer older one. B honest with yourself. Look 4 what u want, hang-out with the type of woman u want and get rid of your girlfriend 2 make room if u do meet the right one. Older women r like diamonds n the rough once u polish them they shine not 2 mention they r more experienced.

Answer 6

I would begin by getting rid of the younger girlfriend. That won't go over well.

The best piece of advice (aside from the one above) that I can give you is to be yourself. Be confident, mature and above all, honest.

Older women tend to have a stronger sense of who they are and what they want, and need, and they won't be shy about stating it. (Compared to young girls that is.)

One thing older women won't abide is silly mind games or lies.

Just be true, and up front about what you want, you'll go far.

Answer 7

Approach any woman you're interested in the same way, no matter what her age may be - respectfully and honestly.

Just be yourself and go on from there. After you take that first step you're going to find it gets easier and easier as your confidence and maturity continue to grow. Good luck!

Answer 8

You approach them in the same manner as you did your girlfriend, apparently it worked for her.

Answer 9

Just act mature, DO your very best to please her and show her you can treat her like a lady and support her every need. I think thats about it just be a gentlemen

Answer 10

You oil up the old wheelchair and catch up with them.