most of the times me and my boyfriend have sex, it doesnt last very long... it only lasts around like fifteen minutes... does this happen to anyone else? or is it common for boys not to last that long? he's 25, so i wasnt sure how to change that.
is there any way he can last longer?
i heard switching positions every time he gets comfortable works because its a surprise for him, but that only makes it last maybe ten more minutes, if that.
any ideas would be greatly appreciated.
2007-03-24 05:26:14 · 7 answers · asked by lenea16 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ohh Yay! This is fun!! I used to do this to my husband before: I swear it helps, and it's so much fun to do.
TEASE!!
Get him really hot, almost to the point he is ready to explode, and then stop... let him go.... DON'T let him come!! After a little while, start all over. It takes awhile before a guy can last longer without having to use the stop and go method... but it does work if you keep it up! You might have to be on top and take control...
Also, if he masturbates before having sex, he will last longer, it's an easier fix, but not as much fun...
2007-03-24 05:32:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
15 minutes of actual intercouse really isn't THAT short seeing as how most teenagers are lucky even to make it to the game before it being over.
However, this doesn't help you any. The real answer is more warm time. (being a guy, I seem to be using sports metaphors) You need more stimulation and attention than the 15 minutes is giving you. This can easily be accomplished manually or orally.
Otherwise, condoms reduce sensation, increasing the lasting abilities. Using rocking/grinding motions rather than full in and out strokes can help too.
Good luck
2007-03-24 12:35:22 · answer #2 · answered by londonmh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know this sounds strange, works fairly well though, give the guy a couple of cups of coffee. No alcohol. You get the wine cooler, he gets caffeine. Get him stable, get him used to being aroused for a long time, change speed, show him how to do this, the 60 secs of sex training from his old man just didn't do it. A Viagra, won't kill him, and get him used to the time he's going to need to have fun with you.
2007-03-24 12:40:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
15 minutes is not bad for a guy......You know what, girls reaches orgasm late that's why they want the boy to last long..what you can advise your boyfriend to go for a foreplay before the intercourses.. ie. you can play around kissing and caressing each other, you can even go for licking or sucking...then when you come to intercourse, by that time your inner juices would be ready to explode anytime...this is the only way how he can satisfy you...
Try it..it really works.
2007-03-24 12:31:49 · answer #4 · answered by Sam- the "big boss" 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The most important thing is talking to him about it telling him you want sex to last longer maybe starting with longer foreplay. If he feels that things are fine and doesn't take steps to change things then your relationship is in trouble.
2007-03-24 12:43:36 · answer #5 · answered by miester44 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Would an hour be good? What's 4 x 15?
2007-03-24 12:34:03 · answer #6 · answered by wontgetfooledagain 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im a bloke and this can happen.get him to pop a viagra every now and again, trust me you will be playing till the sun comes up.ha ha
2007-03-24 12:30:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋