Have people ever known this, when you meet someone who you are so in love with that you become terrified to lose them, and then that means you tread lightly a lot. Do you think that it makes you weak? Or is it just how true love goes?
2007-03-24 05:24:19 · 43 answers · asked by PleaseNoMoreNumbers 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I agree with you it makes you weak and dumb and vulnerable too because you love that person so much that you are so afraid to loose them it kills you. I just think of enjoying it while it last
2007-03-24 05:28:14 · answer #1 · answered by beutifulbutterfly101 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Being in love as a whole makes you vulnerable. When you choose to love someone you are actually giving that person the right to hurt you (meaning break your heart). You should not be afraid of losing somebody; instead try to grow together so that you will have a stronger bond that would help you go through difficulties in the relationship. The more mature one should be steering the wheel. Always continue to learn about relationships...it is an ongoing process of learning and improving and getting better.
2007-03-24 05:32:16 · answer #2 · answered by Batman 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that if its true love it should only make you STRONGER.....
If you are afraid that you have to tread lightly to keep that person than you are with the wrong person. You have to be considerate while still keeping your own best interests in mind... I know that if the man I love today were to leave me it would have to be for a good reason... because I know he wont just leave because of a fight that we are having.... and if he did, I know I would be sad... But then I would move on.... People just need to be strong
2007-03-24 05:28:31 · answer #3 · answered by Scared 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No but I do think it causes a lot of people to make really horrible choices based on emotions rather than logic. You're feelings are communicating one thing but your rational mind is saying another and usually your strong feelings end up winning. Don't be terrified to lose anyone. You should be indifferent from the outcome - that makes you more attractive than being afraid.
2007-03-24 05:29:51 · answer #4 · answered by JAZ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are thinking about true love all wrong. Infatuation and obsession will make you weak. You will always be worried, jealous and insecure.
True love is uplifting and terrific. True love involves trust and when you trust someone, that pressure lifts off you. True love does have its risks because losing it is very hard, but even if you do, you will come out of it treasuring the experience rather than being bitter. True love makes you stronger....
2007-03-24 05:28:22 · answer #5 · answered by londonmh 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, I've been in a lot of types of love, most of which I mistook for the real thing. But I know from past lifetimes what the real thing is, and I know it's coming into my life soon. I believe that the reactions (whatever they may be) are a result of soul recognition. But it's best to know what the recognition is related to. I thought I was head over heels in love with a man, who come to find out raped me in a former lifetime. So just make sure you know what those vibrations (weakness) is trying to signify to you.
2007-03-24 05:58:45 · answer #6 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a great question. If you place keeping a person over your own personality then you are changing to some degree.If you are becoming vulnerable to certain actions (possibly weakening) because of a certain person you may be diminishing yourself.I think this more like self esteem-being afraid to be yourself. Possibly more like an obsession.
I don't think true love requires anything "put on" or "less than".
2007-03-24 05:34:52 · answer #7 · answered by sobergranny9702 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not weak nor weak minded. i feel strong. but i also feel as if i have to become better. i want to become a better person. i think the only reason that throws me back to the weak is becasue i know in my mind it takes time for everything to come but my heart wants it all now so i get confused. but i think it makes you stronger and more confident knowing you have someone by your side. i learned one thing high school romances...you always have to keep your head up and be more aware if you want it to work. i now realize i shouldnt have been so emo. experience makes you stronger to so now i just laugh about it.
2007-03-24 05:33:00 · answer #8 · answered by Big Head 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel like you are going to lose the person, is there enough trust?? Relationships should be built on trust. I think sometimes this happens when the other person doesn't show the same affection. Be honest and open with the person you are seeing. Try not to worry about loosing them... because if it turns out they don't like you as much as you like them.. then it's really better to find out sooner rather than later.
2007-03-24 05:39:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that it makes you stronger. That person enhances everything good about my personality which is why I am with him. He makes me feel like a better person and I hope I do the same for him. However, as others have said it is scary to open you heart. But, ain't it better to have loved and lost than to never love at all?
2007-03-24 05:32:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋