Have you ever loved someone but had another secerte love that you could not tell any one about because they may thinks its wrong and your old lover seems to linger in your mind so you are unable to froget that person.
I love this guy. He's really nice but its hurts to love him because I have stronger feelings for another person.
How do you tell that person you love someone eles and how do you tell the person you love so much I love you?
One last thing how do you forget the past realtions ships that ended out in him abusing you?
2007-03-24 05:22:22 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You just pick yourself up and let go, move on.
You need to ask yourself what it is you want? If ur in love with someone else it is only fair that you tell the one you love but are not in love with. That you love them just not in the way that they feel about you.
Be honest with them they deserve your honesty, yes it may or will hurt but at least you had the decency to tell them. If you dnt tell them they will hold a grudge against you and you dnt wnt that
2007-03-24 05:28:52 · answer #1 · answered by ¸¸.•*´`*♥ Selah 21 ¸¸.•*´`*♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I could say I am in love with two guys at the same time, so I know how you feel.
The first one was my first love, but it was impossible for us to be together. I thought I would forget him as soon as we stop seeing each other, but he is still in my head.
The other guy is sweet, so kind, loves me and I love him too and I feel wrong because I still have feelings for the first one, sometimes I think the first guy is the love of my life, because it lasts and lasts and lasts, but the other guy is my treasure and I want to spend my life with him.
You said the first guy was abusive? Hm, I don`t think I`d be able to be in love with someone like that, anyways if the other guy loves you and you love him, just stay with him and don`t tell him about the first guy, that would just hurt him. Your ex lover isn`t important as long as you don`t get together again , then it would be fair to tell your guy what`s going on.
I hope you`ll make the right decision.
Good luck.
2007-03-24 12:35:08 · answer #2 · answered by Lanalee W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's life. You got to just be honest with them. Its hard but you could put your past relationship behind you and move on. Remeber that not all guys are abusive like your ex is. Be honest and move on. If your not ready then don't go into a relationship until your ready.
2007-03-24 12:28:41 · answer #3 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is life my friend and it happens with most of us...you need to concentrate a bit more about your present love and forget your past...you should even tell the person that you dont love her anymore.
2007-03-24 12:26:25 · answer #4 · answered by Sam- the "big boss" 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋