as simple as he never calls me for exactly 7 weeks now, or the last time we've seen each other. i called and texted him hundred times, but never get any reply from him. what bothers me most. i can't seem to get over him. i still have this huge hope that one day he will show up, and will have a happy ending with him. am i stupid?
2007-03-24 05:21:00 · 20 answers · asked by blank 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's NOT that into you.......move on, next time you see him will be in court for stalking/harassment charges
2007-03-24 05:27:19 · answer #1 · answered by Outside the box 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There was definitely something about him that struck a chord in you and you are feeling heartsick right now.
I felt this way about my first love. I was 16 and naive, trusting that what I was feeling was what he was too. We never went beyond a kiss so it wasn't a sexual attraction, but so much about him made my heart beat faster. I guess he felt he was too young to be committed into a relationship. It took me over a year to get over him and when I did I realized I didn't really know him.
He is not answering your messages by ignoring you and so now that is your answer. If he had not told you in person that the relationship is off then take it he is not mature enough to give you the decency of a response.
Love heals but takes time and before you know it someone who you are more compatible with will come into your life and the fireworks will spark for both of you.
And btw, you are not stupid. Keep your chin up.
2007-03-24 13:03:03 · answer #2 · answered by Marina 1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to face reality and move on dear. And you never should have texted him more than once or twice after the last time you saw him. And your not stupid, so stop beating yourself up for nothing. Your making yourself look really desperate. Always remember that a person's actions speak louder than there words. His actions tell me that he's not interested in you any more. How to get over him? Simple, go find yourself a new interest, there are lots of fish left in the sea.
2007-03-24 12:27:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG please get over this now. Get out there and date some men. Texting and calling him is doing nothing to help you, in fact it's actually making things worse and he will see you as someone with low value and no self esteem. Cut off all contact with him and go date some other men and get over this situation. Trust me on this! You can't force a person to be attracted to you. If anything absence makes the heart grow fonder but you're going about this the wrong way.
2007-03-24 12:24:24 · answer #4 · answered by JAZ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Basically yes you're being stupid, he doesn't text you or reply to you because he doesn't want to talk to you in any way ever again. I'm sorry to be so harsh but you need to face up to the fact he doesn't like you how you like him, he's moved on & you have to as well. Start realising that anyone who can treat another person like sh t is not someone you should want to spend any time with so move on hun. Surely you know you deserve to be treated better & with respect
2007-03-24 12:29:21 · answer #5 · answered by madamspud 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't say you are stupid because people who have intense emotions toward someone find it hard to let go. I know I have been there before and it is easier for me to let go if the guy tells me to my face that he doesn't love me anymore. That would be my closure. Seven weeks are just too long to keep on hoping that is, if you knew what is going on with him. Like is he still alive? Or does he still have that phone number you used to text him? If he is just there chillin then letting go is in order. You will see that there will be other men in your life who would cherish you.
2007-03-24 12:26:34 · answer #6 · answered by Batman 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he hasn't called within a couple of days it's not likely he ever will. And if you've "texted him hundred times" with no response he is obviously avoiding contact.
He's probably not that into you. Unrequited love is hard, but you need to move on.
2007-03-24 12:29:00 · answer #7 · answered by Rainman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stupid;no. It's quite normal to hope that someone we care for will care fro us in return. The question is,how Long do we wait for that person to show us his real feelings. If he has not had contact with you in seven weeks..it's safe to assume he just doesn't feel for you what you want him to. My only other advice would be to find a way to get him to talk face to face and simply ask him what his feeling s are.
2007-03-24 12:26:59 · answer #8 · answered by mopjky 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Isn't that a coincidence?! I was having the same problem a month ago. I wanted to go out with this guy and he told me to call him and every time i did, he would tell me he will call me back. I would wait....and wait...and WAIT.......! BUT HE NEVER DID. But i had to make a hard decision and let him go. I took his number out of my phone and to tell you the truth, he still haven't call yet. So I don't care.
Let him go.
2007-03-24 12:29:41 · answer #9 · answered by Ms* Shae* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can maybe see if its only been 2 to 3 wks. I'd say call him even though he might not discuss it but he will know if you call or convey that you miss the closnest that you had but if he does say goodbye then you will have to move on from there!
2007-03-24 12:29:23 · answer #10 · answered by David H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you're not stupid. If you've called him hundred times, its a bit too much. Its like stalking him and you have made it so that he totally has lost interest. He might even think you're psycho. Let it go.
2007-03-24 12:25:47 · answer #11 · answered by Lana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋