2007-03-24 05:09:27 · 15 answers · asked by Zloar 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I haven't even been hanging out with other women... there's nothing I've been doing that is questionable... she's just being super insecure.
2007-03-24 05:10:22 · update #1
show her that she is ur only one.
2007-03-24 05:12:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you truly haven't done anything to deserve her accusing you of cheating and she cannot or will not believe you then ask her what evidence she has that would confirm that you have cheated. If she has none to offer then she needs to either accept what you are saying is true or she needs to look at herself and why she is having trust issues. Sometimes the accuser is the one that is actually cheating. I'm not sure if this is true in your case. I tend to think it has more to do with your girlfriends insecurity and her own issues with trust. If she refuses to address these issues then it will continue to be a problem throughout her relationships.
2007-03-24 12:21:53 · answer #2 · answered by love2breal2003 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can just sit her down and explain to her just how much you love HER and not whatever chic she is imagining, that would help alot. Ensure her that she is the only girl for you. If she can't trust you, when you are being sincere and serious, then something is wrong. Trust me, you don't want to stay in a relationship with a person who questions everything you do, even do you have declared your love for them.
2007-03-24 12:16:07 · answer #3 · answered by actafool0808 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her what she would like you to do to prove it to her. Maybe she's been cheated on before, maybe she just needs time to learn to trust you properly. Give her a chance - if you care about her don't walk away just because you're facing a few issues. If it still doesn' t work out then you have to ask yourself if she's worth al the hassle.
2007-03-24 12:17:42 · answer #4 · answered by Alex 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Woman have a sense about these things.
So what are you doing that is "highlighting" her insecurity about the relationship? Sit with her and ask her what would you like me to do to "help US" feel like a warm, safe and loving place! Listen without judgement and work on it.
2007-03-24 12:14:22 · answer #5 · answered by Denise W 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just talk to her and show how much you care and love her and try to do something that would really change her mind about her thinking you cheated on her.
Really don't take this personnal but you have to do something really really good even though you didn't cheat.
2007-03-24 12:16:08 · answer #6 · answered by astateson111 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her that's its up to her if she doesn't believe her - what more can you say. It depends on her reasons for thinking this. And ask yourself, if she's that insecure do you really want to put up with the possessiveness that comes with it.
2007-03-24 12:13:48 · answer #7 · answered by villafan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take her out on a romantic date spilling out your love and feelings for her.... Make her feel like your one and only... Even though you know you are not cheating some time girls think you are when you dont spend as much time with them as you use to... If you are spending time with her spend some more, spoil her....
2007-03-24 12:16:16 · answer #8 · answered by Jesse 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her in no uncertain terms that if your word isn't good enough for her then this relationship will not continue. She needs to be careful what she accuses people of especially with no proof.
2007-03-24 12:14:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I belong to a professional organozation in Ontario Canada called "In Search Of Justice"...the REAL answer is once they think you have cheated...YOU HAVE! You're guilty...like it or not. So...do what you gotta do.
2007-03-24 12:17:31 · answer #10 · answered by wontgetfooledagain 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's that extreme then give her an ultimatum. Either she believes you or she doesn't and you aren't going to argue about it anymore! Your word stands and if she doesn't believe you then she can leave. Sometimes you have to take that sort of stance.
2007-03-24 12:13:24 · answer #11 · answered by JAZ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋