When a guy stops talking to me, or I do not hear from them for a day or so, I get this urge to drive by there house, and if i do not hear from them for a week i get mad and want to seek revenge like taking the credit card numbers or slitting there tires. Am I a stalker or just a spoilled brat? And is there some way to surpress this emotion.
2007-03-24 05:07:03 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Stop thinking about them so much. You're letting theses people take over your life. Spend time doing other things. Take your mins off of what you want to do to get even or whatever. Just be patient, not everything is supposed to go your way. You should just accept things for the way they are. If something happens it happens, there is no way for you to control it, and you certainly can't control the other person's behaviour so just let it go. You're not a stalker, you just let things get to you a bit too easily.
2007-03-24 05:13:55 · answer #1 · answered by Axel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say yes you do have some jealousy issues and it sounds like you get too carried away. Perhaps talking to a counselor or therapist about your feelings of revenge might help you find another way to express your feelings. Or maybe some anger management classes.
By the way, I have no credit cards or a car if you get upset with me over my answer.
2007-03-24 05:11:57 · answer #2 · answered by T F 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have the potential to be a stalker and mind you, guys will surely run away from you because of that. They hate to be tied down with one woman. You can start by going out with your girlfriends and do fun stuff together. Or do volunteer work; anything to take your mind off that obsessive behavior. Also try loving yourself; you are worth more than what you think and so you shouldn't be running after guys who don't see your good qualities.
2007-03-24 05:12:34 · answer #3 · answered by Batman 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you are a stalker... but you do have a couple of problems, and thankfully you've realized that. Its sounds like you feel the need to be in a relationship, and if it doesn't work out, you still chase it. Maybe you need to learn to move on, force yourself to forget the guy who never called back. Don't spend your whole life chasing after him. If he doesn't respect you enough to at least call you again, then he doesn't deserve you. Just sit down and think about it....
2007-03-24 05:13:56 · answer #4 · answered by ~Lucky~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with the 1st answer, u r a psycho who might eventually turn to stalking, you definitely have the mind of a big time stalker and that is not attractive..you will scare all the guys away like that...maybe u need to see a psychiatrist?
2007-03-24 05:12:48 · answer #5 · answered by bebekaychic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hell yes that sounds like a stalker and if you havent done that then good but it sounds like you are well on your way to it. get some help that is not a normal way to deal with somebody not talking to you for a day or a week.
2007-03-24 05:22:21 · answer #6 · answered by OB the Wolf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds very stalker-like to me.
Stop before you start boiling bunnies Fatal Attraction style.
I suggest you get help, see a counsellor or something, they can help you with cognitive therapy.... while wanting revenge is perfectly normal, it is usually confined to less dramatic ideas.
2007-03-24 05:15:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
By definition terms, yes you are. Try getting into yoga or something that will get rid of those urges. And ignore them for a few days and then they will ask what's up.
2007-03-24 05:19:18 · answer #8 · answered by LaNinaScorpia91 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your a stalker and you sound like you need counseling..my guess is that you are very insecure..give the guuuy breathing room 2 days is not a long time especially if you newinto the relationship.. you sound like you need some serious therapy.
2007-03-24 05:12:12 · answer #9 · answered by mary c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shorty, It sounds to me like you're just a little bit insecure. If you are not definitely committed see other people. Free your mind, and the rest will follow.
2007-03-24 05:12:42 · answer #10 · answered by John J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋