i went out with this boy lets name him (bob) ok well i was going out with bob for about a month and it was going really well until one day i flirted with other guys .. laughing hugging and talkin kinda dirty .. but i didnt do anything with them then he broke up with me and weve been broke up for almost 3 months and i miss him like crazy i wish i could get my baby back i need all the advice i can get iknow i shouldnt have done that and i talked to him .. how do i earn his trust back ? he has a girl for almost 3 months now and it kills me to see him with her knowing she just wants the name of being with him i LOVE him to death how do i get him back !!!?
2007-03-24 05:02:35 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should try talking with him, become friends with him atleast. Then from there build your friend ship on trust andif he breaks up with the girl atleast then he'll know he can trust you.
You know, it may not be that you love him, it maybe that you're maybe a little possessive? I mean I'm not trying to be insulting, but people don't generally tend to love someone after 1 month, so maybe you just liked the idea of being with him?
Try dating a few other guys, see if you're happier with anyone else. If all else fails, tell bob you still have feelings for him
2007-03-24 05:07:42 · answer #1 · answered by toronto_leafs 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Listen I'm having the same problem. The ex's always come crawling back at the wrong time, don't they? I mean i bet you wished for weeks after the break up that you would get back together but he never called or anything. Well it depends on how much you still like your ex. Cuz it's not fair to your current boyfriend to still have feelings for an ex. so if you are gonna stay with your boyfriend make sure you lose all contact with your ex. I mean you re gonna think that you guys can still be friends. But it's not gonna be good if he still has feelings for you. Unless of course your boyfriend trusts you enough to let you guys hang out. Just think about who you really want.
2016-03-29 02:15:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There sure are a lot of people here that have basically the same situation!
Look on the bright side: You learnt a lesson. Some people don't even learn lessons. They just repeat.
So, you have to deal with a little heart-break. Well, so does everyone.
I suggest leaving him alone as he's got a girlfriend. Why is it suddenly so important for you to ruin his relationship and hers as well? Haven't you hurt him enough already? And what has she done to you?
Your jealous and a bit heart-broken. That happens. You've also displayed unloyalty: firstly by flirting heavily with other guys when you were with Bob, and secondly, now by saying that you should maybe try to break up his current relationship.
Sorry to tell you, but you're at fault here. And, as I said before, take it in stride. Learn and move on.
The best people are those who learn instead of just falling into vicious circles.
What's the lesson? If you fall for a nice guy again, be loyal, and you'll have all you ever wanted in the end.
2007-03-24 05:12:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey just move on your man saw you in action and got scared you was talking dirty,flirting and hugging other men right in front of your new man and that scared him away you know that you had only been talking to him for a month when did all of that flirting and other stuff in front of him and he probably though that if you would do all of that in front of him what in the world would you do behind his back. You under estimated yourself and what you had in your man,but don't worry about spilled milk wrap it up and move on after all there are other fish in the sea and try to find you a bigger shark this time and not a wimpy a** mino(baby fish).Because if he knew that he had you on lock down he would have not been worried about no other Joe smuckel Telly
2007-03-24 05:32:12 · answer #4 · answered by heavenlli_61 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sweetheart, you don't love him to death - you want what you can't have. That's why you were flirting with other guys when you already had a boyfriend. You may be just one of those folks who needs a lot ot attention - wants what they can't have, and doesn't appreciate what's right there in front of them. Let him go but please, I want you to go away with a good lesson from this. Be happy with what you have not what you think you may want.
2007-03-24 05:06:30 · answer #5 · answered by Dee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's busy already. So, get on with your bad self. No really better to go on with your life and have him curious as to how you can do that so easily after him. Some guys don't give a women a second chance. Hard lesson sorry.
2007-03-24 05:08:22 · answer #6 · answered by DearAbby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't think flirting and "talking dirty" with men other than your date is more than just a tad bit disrespectful to your date?
Good for him. I'd dump you too.
2007-03-24 05:05:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You messed up. He doesn't want you anymore. Find a new guy and try to treat the new one right.
2007-03-24 05:05:07 · answer #8 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what you did when you got him the first time, fat chances are he's not over you(yet).
2007-03-24 05:10:06 · answer #9 · answered by AsiH 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i had the same porlemb and it was just like yours and i think you should talk it out.
2007-03-24 05:16:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋