my bf want s to make me do something i dont want to. he's too mature for me.we went to our secret place with another coulple and he said he wanted to have sex with me that day. i said no but they kept pressuring me. the bad thing about it is my bf said that he loved me and i dont want to break his heart by breaking up with him. what do i do?
2007-03-24 05:00:22 · 8 answers · asked by midnight_sky01 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just tell him it's something you don't want to do. Whatever you do, don't give in to him unless YOU really want to.
2007-03-24 05:04:56 · answer #1 · answered by Liz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants to get into your pants. Guys will say just about anything including I love you to do it. He does not love you at all. If he did, he would respect that you are not ready, and not pressure you. If he is a lot older than you, he's a CREEP, get rid of him. There is nothing more pathetic than an older guy trying to influence a younger girl to do his bidding. There is something wrong with him. He is manipulaing you, break up and move on to someone closer in age. His intentions are not good. You are obviuously too young to be ready for sex. Don't worry about hurting his feelings, he has none.
When I was 11, I thought I was the belle of ball dating a 17 year old that pressured me the same way. 2 weeks after I gave in, he broke up with me. I was of course devastated and confused. Now I hear this guy is in jail. Wanna know what for? He molested his 11 year old step daughter. He was a CREEP and I didn't understand that at 11, now I'm 33 and I fully understand what was going on. Lies and manipulation, and his obsession with very young girls. It has tainted my life since then, and affects my marrage today. So tell this guy to get lost, and think no more about it.
2007-03-24 12:12:25 · answer #2 · answered by Sunday P 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my bf always says he wanna have sex with me,but i said no,but he never presure me,he leave it 2 my choice,and in your case you will have 2 tell him how you feel,its very hard but you have 2 do it 2 end it,looks like your bf is hurting u and u are afraid 2 hurt him.i mean just tell 2 him what you feel.be honest
best of luck
elsa ;)
2007-03-24 12:08:12 · answer #3 · answered by elsa brittany 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep saying no --- if he does not accept it all he is after is sex and you wont break his heart by saying no --- im sorry he is probably saying he loves you to get you to have sex with him ---- sorry and best wishes
2007-03-24 12:09:13 · answer #4 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget him. he's probally only saying he loves you to have sex with you. you should dump him and find someone who really loves you and doesn't feel the need to have sex to show that.
:)
2007-03-24 12:05:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he loves you like he says he does, then u shoul be able to tell him how u feel, and if he loves u like he say he does then he would understand. cuz i loved my gurl, i kno i would understand
2007-03-24 12:06:26 · answer #6 · answered by Mil 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it! It's not like ur married are u? Are u?Coz if u are should probably back off.
2007-03-26 19:20:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stick with your guns. If he insists tell him it's no or go.
2007-03-24 12:10:43 · answer #8 · answered by Early1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋