why am i here in this painfull world.............?

Question

everybody gets everthing in life but still some people miss their love and get into a different relationship why .i dont know why some of us inspite of being in relationship still feel lonely and all alone without sex and without love i need your kind advice

Answer 1

Honey, you have not missed your love yet...they just haven't came along. Your knight in shining armor will come along, but you have to look for him. You may be in a bad relationship now and if you are maybe you should think about leaving it they are abusive. But just set still your love is coming your way.

Answer 2

Try not to look at life as misfortunate, the world is not out to get you, try looking at it as an endless series of opportunities. Don't approach it from the stand point that "everybody else" gets everything. If you look around you are going to find people that have it so much worse than you. That being said, if you are in a relationship where there is no love and you feel lonely, then perhaps you need to reevaluate your relationship. Why stay in a relationship that makes you depressed. Sex releases hormones that make you feel better, I would say that the absence of this would cause you to be depressed and could also make you feel like you are not loved. Ask yourself why you are in a relationship, and maybe get a puppy. Do something for yourself that makes you feel more worthwhile.

Answer 3

You feel lonely because even with a person who is very nice to you, you can still not be getting what you want. There are very different ideas of what "nice" means when you ask different people. I guess that you feel lonely because you havn't found whoever or whatever it is that will fulfill a particular need that you have.

Answer 4

The solution is simple. Let God in your life. Not half of the way or a little bit,but all the way. You´ll then see the benefits of being Human and enjoy the privileg of living on Gods´Planet !

Answer 5

i know how you feel ihave been there also..dont give up just have faith,,,it will get better i promise just believe in yourself and stop being so hard on yourself..life is what you make it..get together with friends as often as you can that will take your mind off all the bad things that are happening in your life.. thats what i did and it does help!! keep telling your self that you are special and you will sooon believe in yourself. my guess is that you have not met that special some one yet and when you least expect it it will happen,, good luck to your future i see brighter tomorrows coming your way!

Answer 6

baby girl, life is not fair sometime. you can only control some of it. set a goal for yourself and don't let only fate dictate how your life should be. know what you want; make the direction toward it. falling into an unwanted relationship is a bad pitfall. so, dig yourself out from it and start anew. show confident and have a great direction. no one, no way, no how, can divert you from your goal. it starts today.

Answer 7

If you're in a relationship that's not making you happy, end it. Simple as that. However, if its two people who are married.. then its more of a problem. I would suggest marriage counseling.

Answer 8

You need counseling, seriously. The problem is not with other people, it's with you. If you are not happy with yourself then how do you expect other people to be happy with you? You need to work on you, get some confidence in yourself and you'll find your relationships with people will improve.

Answer 9

the pain is in your heart. being single is just fine, and no sex, well the world still goes round and round....
love is tougher than you think, many things to love in the world, you must look closer....and many ways to love also.
look at all the people in the peace corps and red cross, and missionary....love is there plenty...

Answer 10

Stop dating to find out what is important to you. Find people with those specific traits and see if it enhances your life. Stop having sex, or slow down...