I love my boyfriend very much.. I've known him since I was15 and I'm 22 now. But we lost touch for a while then we found each other again. I moved across several states to be with him even though I know that for the first few years of our relationship that I'll rarely see him. I know that it's not going to be easy but we want to be with each other. I'm even aware of his daughter, although I dont like the mother. His family loves me. I have so much in my favor but how do I make dealing with him being gone easier and stay committed to him?
2007-03-24 04:56:27 · 11 answers · asked by mariko420_69 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
first you have really love him, if you do with all your heart you will have no problem being committed to him i always say a relationship away from home doesn't last long but i found out different a long time ago. you just have keep on doing thing to make him feel that he is wanted try not to get to friendly with any guy that you meet and the feeling of needing other man will not come in your mind
2007-04-01 04:43:24 · answer #1 · answered by diahweed 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you truly love him you will stay commited. It does get easier when he goes away however in the long run you need to ask yourself are you going to be happy in a relationship when your man is always away? Where is the support for you? Who is there for you? Can he not put you first? Plus he is in the Navy which will worry you all the time. I don't know me personally I could not deal with that. You both have to be happy. Take care and good luck.
2007-03-31 20:35:59 · answer #2 · answered by Grace 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are questioning your loyalty to your boyfriend now?, then I think you are already in trouble. If you need to ask HOW do you stay committed, then you are not as "in love" as you think. If you are fearful that you will cheat on your boyfriend, then I would break up with him. It is not fair to your boyfriend to go away, thinking you are 100% true blue. You are definitely entertaining the thought, of the difficulty in remaining committed, that tells me, you are unsure of your feelings. Your guy does not need a "Dear John" letter, when he is away, cut him loose, do the right thing, BEFORE he leaves!
2007-03-31 04:57:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband is in Iraq as we speak, it sux I'm not gunna sugar coat it for ya. You can make it what you want though-KEEP YOURSELF BUSY, send him mail and talk to him when you can but don't stress on him all the time. When times get rough just think about the good times and just move on and think of how good the future is going to be and how much it is actually worth to you. You can make it through it, I'm "high maintenance" or so I'm told and were into month 4 and I'm still going very strong.
2007-03-31 21:21:10 · answer #4 · answered by ~never again~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-01 10:21:19 · answer #5 · answered by vyky 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok hey how are yo doing I kinda in the same situation your in and I often feel the same way but these are a few things that might help you try to keep your mind off of this subject like go to the gym or hang out wit friends and when you go to sleep read a book or maybe talk to him on the phone that might work!
2007-04-01 04:34:53 · answer #6 · answered by lilobh17 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i can totally understand. my dad was in navy too and my mom really had a tough time. but got over it cause she had many friends to give her company. so maybe if u have a gud friend circle u'll not feel lonely because all the other aunties husbands used to go for a long time too . so everyone used to give each other company.
ALL THE BEST
2007-03-24 05:29:36 · answer #7 · answered by S . Sushmita 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
see the family often,,as far as commitment,thats up to you,,,if you really love him,you will
2007-04-01 04:55:56 · answer #8 · answered by igottadrive2001 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think that he's going to be faithful to you while he's away, you are mistaken. Have a little no-strings fun while he's away. No harm done.
2007-04-01 04:27:48 · answer #9 · answered by canucklehead1951 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just go out and get serviced every once in a while no strings attached - when he comes back you wil;l feel guilty and treat him better
2007-03-24 05:05:30 · answer #10 · answered by rooster 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋