but when i called him he said i think i know who is calling.
and the reason that i broke up with him cause he cheated on me. but he done it before and i took him back so could go for three month with out taking to me . i still love him . ( p s he lives with the women he cheated on me)
2007-03-24 04:48:41 · 14 answers · asked by eileen a 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
but i was with him for 15 years not marry or kids
2007-03-24 04:58:21 · update #1
He cheated on you! He now lives with the woman he cheated on you with! Why in the world would you call him? You have to let him go.....love him, or not!!
2007-03-24 04:57:31 · answer #1 · answered by olderbutwiser 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How i know what u mean. it hurts but you want it back. Boys just don't understand sometimes what it feels like. My boyfriend broke up with me because "it was'nt working". lol i kinda miss him but it will take time. Because if he cheated on you thatn u can do better and deserve better than that. So i feel your pain. Cause u kinda want him back and kinda don't right? Well that hurts a lot. It is hard to let go.
2007-03-24 11:56:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As hard as it is for you, you need to get out there, do the things you love to do, and meet new people.
There is an awesome guy who is just waiting to meet you and treat you the way you deserve to be treated.
None of us are getting any younger, and in a few years if you don't get out there and find happiness, your going to want to kick yourself in the butt for wasting time on some guy who treated you like dirt!
Good Luck!
2007-03-24 11:54:05 · answer #3 · answered by Super Babe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love can be a very painful thing. It is obvious that he isn't in love with you becasue not only did he cheat but when you left him he went back to the same woman that destroyed your relationship. You may be in love with him but its time to find the closer necessary to move on.
2007-03-24 11:52:52 · answer #4 · answered by SNK 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mostly I think that people think that they love the things they cant have. Meaning that your feelings towards him arent necesarilly real, maybe you just want him out of lust, not pure love. I think you should dig your feelings and see again how you really feel. and even if you decided that you really are still in love with him, I think you should think about it. you rally wanna be with someone who already cheated on you? are you sure he was happy with you? cant you let the person you love be happy with someone else?
anyway. those are questions only you can answer.
2007-03-24 11:57:37 · answer #5 · answered by AsiH 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm, im terribly sorry to have to say this, but the flame is out. gone, the smoke is fizzling off of that fire. plus, you SO don't deserve to be treated like that. nobody does, so find a better guy. until then, listen to sad break up songs, eat chocolates, read old love letters.... and then burn everything of his and go partying with some hot guys. :)
2007-03-24 11:54:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry, but how stupid can women be? Is that the best you can do to yourself? Love him? Give me a break. What is wrong with us women that we lower ourselves to being nothing and setting ourselves up for failure only to cry and complain when it happens.
Read 10 Stupid Things Women do To Mess Up Their Lives by Laura Schlesinger.
2007-03-24 11:53:07 · answer #7 · answered by VW 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is a funny thing. When we have it we think we can never find it again. Move on and find a guy who only wants to be with you.Why waste time on a guy who has shown you he just isn't that attracted to you?
2007-03-24 11:52:53 · answer #8 · answered by mopjky 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Out of all the males in the world, this is the one that you think you cannot live without?????
2007-03-24 11:52:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
get over him. he obviously moved on if hes living with her and common now you deffenetly dont want someone who cares so little about hurting your feelings to cheat on you.
2007-03-24 11:52:41 · answer #10 · answered by hj 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋