my boyfriend and i had sumthing gud going till he asked me if i would suck his d..., later in our relationship. i got mad and told him how i felt about it, now we haven't talked for 2 day.what do i do?and i realy like this guy.
2007-03-24 04:36:13 · 24 answers · asked by nancy m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you should try to get a hold of him, then try to just have sex with him one more time. If he asks you to suck his d... one more time... i think you should just try just once... it worked out for me and my gf... except.. she wanted me to suck her p....
2007-03-24 04:41:05 · answer #1 · answered by Al G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this is something you don't want to do, and he's going to be immature about it then A. He's not mature enough to be doing anything sexual and B. He is not worth your time. Real men respect a womens wishes with no problem because they are in it for the girls company, not for how far she is willing to go. It is completely disrespectful of him to give you the silent treatment when you refuse him of that. He shouldn't be acting like a 2 year old in a candy store. I would def. break up with this guy. If he truly cared about you, then he would have said okay and left it at that. What if you said you didn't want to do something mroe serious then this and he just didn't take no for an answer? You can do so much better hun, just stand up for what you want and don't settle till you get better then that because it's what you deserve.
2007-03-24 04:43:47 · answer #2 · answered by kMaz 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Good job. If he isn't willing to wait then he doesn't care about you or him. Having sex that early changes everything. For the girl, she becomes more emotionally attached to the guy. The guy, being made up differently, doesn't feel that way. Don't call him and see what he does. Should he not call you anymore, then you can be glad you didn't go any further. If he does call you, make sure you tell him that you really like him but don't want to get sexual with him at this time.
2007-03-24 04:42:31 · answer #3 · answered by VW 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Being in a relationship is not always easy. If you don't feel comfortable with something he is asking you to do,just be honest in your reactions. No means NO. If he really cares for you he will understand. If he continues to give you the silent treatment..maybe it's time you found someone who won't pressure you to do things you don't really want to do!
2007-03-24 04:40:56 · answer #4 · answered by mopjky 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm Depends how OLD You are. if you are young. Then HELL NO. Live life to the fullest. Sucking his "Stuff" Will not make you feel like a better person! That boyfriend is A SCUM JERK. How DARE He ask you something like that.
DUMP HIM
2007-03-24 04:41:53 · answer #5 · answered by Peyton 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well as a guy, I can tell you that not many things feel as good as what you are reffering to if done right. it just depedns on if you really care for him or not. if not, tell him to go suck his own. If so try to come to some mutual agreement. maybe there are things he can do for you that you cant. hope this helps, take care.
2007-03-24 04:41:02 · answer #6 · answered by RocketProof 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he won't tak to you cause you don't want to suck his thing well forget him. It is up to you and he sounds like quite the loser and sook. Seems like if he can't get his own way he'll throw a hissy fit. Move on to a guy that respects your decisions!!
2007-03-24 04:41:26 · answer #7 · answered by Jade AvA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well he should be able to understand how u feel and if he don't know how well thats something bad u shouldn't have to do something u dont want and he should want the best for both of yall so its up to u
2007-03-24 04:42:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I mean if you don't want to do it, then he should just deal with it. You should really only perform that act when you are in love with the person and they love you equally back. Or you can turn the tables on him and tell him if you do that, then he'll have to give you some oral love as well.
2007-03-24 04:40:45 · answer #9 · answered by Angel Face 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it is nothing to get angry over it is just another part of sex. if you dont feel comfortable doing that calmly tell him that. do do anything that you are not comfortable doing. i would try to call him and see what is going and maybe say sorry but you still feel that way about the oral.
2007-03-24 04:51:17 · answer #10 · answered by OB the Wolf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him that when you freaked out about tht, u wern't trying to start a fight or nething you were just trying to let him kno tht u r NOT ready 4 tht kinda thing. If he STILL acts mad at you then you should DEFINATLEY leave him he sounds kinda like the kinda guy tht only goes w/ people so they will give him what he wants if ya kno wut i mean....
2007-03-24 04:41:34 · answer #11 · answered by clarabelle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋