I have been seeing two guys on an off for the past 3 months and have history with both of these guys. One guy was my first love and would be the bf but hes not very affectinate unless its in the mornings in bed or right before intercouse..witht he other guy we were dating shortly before I rekindled things with mynow bf but things didnt work out for us at the time until recently we have been talking alot and he seems like he is extremely genion about how he feels for me. We have alot of fun while we are together and everything just meshes extremely well between us. . I have no clue who I want to be with but i know i hate seeing them both.the person i am not with knows i am with someone but oviously my bf does not know i talk to my ex or hang out with him.i love my bf and if I was sure of his dovotion to me this wouldnt be an issue. but this other guy is just wonderful.Do you guys think I should risk it and just go for something new or stay witht he person i do love and play it out?
2007-03-24 04:35:21 · 2 answers · asked by jenn p 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I absolutly love my bf which is why this is so hard because if i was going for the one who seems to want me more I would go with the ex, but since my bf seems shaddy at times and isnt as loving as I know he can be of course it leaves me wanting more. He doesnt communicate as he once did. I have tried to have talks with him about this stuff. If I had it my way I would be with this man til the day I died but IM not going to stay somewhere im not 100 percent taken care of the way I shoudl be. Im afriad to leave him for josh because me and josh already didnt work out once and josh to me even thouhg i love spending time with him likes the chase more then the catch...both of these guys on random nights i think about before bed and both of these guys on different days it hink about when I wake up. without a doubt i love my bf which is why i havent already left.... i cant amagine myself even not having him there.. but i love the love and affection josh give me
2007-03-24 04:36:13 · update #1