I have liked this guy for quite some time.At a drunkin party we were playing this game where we(friends at a party)were giving eachother a small peck on the lips.When it was his turn to give me a peck..OH MY GOSH..stars went off.He later said we should discuss that kiss.We kissed a little more,then the evening was over.I talked with him a couple times afterward but not about "us".Six months later, he emails me and asks if i am seeing someone.I told him i was not.He explained he just got out of a relationship that had started after the kissing night and he wanted to get to know me more.We emailed back and forth for two days.He suddenly stopped emailing me.There was nothing in our discussions that would have caused this.I emailed him back a couple days later just to say hey whats up.He said he was sorry he stopped emailing me and would make it up.Then he stopped emailing me again.A few days later i emailed him again.Same thing happened,he replied once then stopped emailing.Im confused
2007-03-24 04:31:59 · 3 answers · asked by justme 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Some guys aren't consistent with emails, nor letters, it isn't really a strength a woman can rely on. He may be very interested in you, but he isn't into emails. Try calling him and talking in person, initiate more. I wouldn't advise you to come on strong, but stand firm and let him know what you want, give him a clear idea of how you feel, when he stops replying to your emails. If you don't tell him what you are feeling, how is he really going to know, that there may be a problem creeping up.
2007-03-24 04:45:38 · answer #1 · answered by darkpoet3000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably got back into the relationship he was in when he kissed you. Even if he wasn't in the relationship it wouldn't be a good idea to date him because he would be on the rebound. You can see stars with alot of people,just make sure you choose people who are ready,willing and able to be in a healthy relationship with you and it doesn't sound like he is. Even if he wanted to date you do you really want someone so unreliable and rude as to not e-mail you back and keep you wondering? I think you can do better than that. There are lots of guys out there so move on.
2007-03-24 11:38:47 · answer #2 · answered by Lori O 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do not put anymore of your time and energy into this guy. If someone likes you and is truly interested then there actions will show it. From what you have said this guy isn't interested for whatever reason. Don't take it personal instead look inside yourself and realize that you are worth getting to know and you deserve much better. Guys come and go. Unfortunately you have to weed out the good ones from the bad ones. This guy is not good and he will never treat you with respect if you continue to chase him. Let it go for your own sanity.
2007-03-24 12:08:59 · answer #3 · answered by love2breal2003 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋