I want to get over him and not want him back. He broke up with me and never realy gave me a reason why. So I was hoping some of y'all could give me reason why I shouldn't want to be with him. He no longer speaks or looks at me even though I see him nearly everyday. He's acting like a jerk but I still love him. i know he wants nothing to do with me, he has told me he dosn't love me and "us" will never happen again. How can I force myself to believe that hes really no good for me?
2007-03-24 04:17:31 · 8 answers · asked by Simple Love 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Because;
(1) You want to get over him.
(2) You do not want him back.
(3) He broke up with you and he never gave you a reason why.
(4) He no longer speaks or looks at you even though you see him nearly everyday.
(5) He acts like a jerk .
(6) He wants nothing to do with you.
(7) He doesn't love you.
(8) He really is no good for you.
How many more reasons do you need?
******* NOW *******
Here is how you forget about him
Go out and meet other guys.
Set high goals and keep your focus on them.
You should never spend your life focusing on only one person.
Especially if that one person is bringing you down.
You are experiencing the agony of separation anxiety.
If you socialize with a variety of people it will be easier to turn your goals into reality.
You will be surprised at how attractive you will become to others if you have high goals and you let them be known.
Some people will hop on the bandwagon and help you to achieve these goals.
Others will try to drag you away from your dreams through heartbreak, sex, drama, drugs and more!
A successful person gravitates towards the people who help them grow in a positive direction.
A loser gravitates towards people that drag them down. Sometimes all it takes is one person to ruin your life.
Good Luck and Have Fun!
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2007-03-24 04:21:24 · answer #1 · answered by Dave Yours Truly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I recomend a book that I think every girl should read. "It's called a break up because it's broken" Amazing book that really helps after a break up. The main thing it talks about is that after a break up, when you are wondering why it happened and missing that person you aren't thinking about "Was our relationship really that perfect?" And 9 times outa 10, no, it wasn't. It talks about a ton of things. My favorite was the 60 day rule. After a break up, to cleanse yourself and give you time to get over it all...go 60 days without talking or seeing that person(or at least as much as possible, I know it's different since you go to school with him) but this way you cleanse yourself and you have time to heal. Otherwise, you won't be able to let time takes it's course of letting your heart heal, and eventually seeing that you will do better and that things weren't perfect. You'll love this book!
2007-03-24 04:29:28 · answer #2 · answered by kMaz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Several reasons why its a bad idea. He's acting like a jerk and wants nothing to do with you. He told you he doesn't love you and "us" will never happen again. He wants nothing to do with you. Off the top. You deserve a better quality of love. Get out there.. there's plenty of people to spoil you & love you.
2007-03-24 04:25:27 · answer #3 · answered by DearAbby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hes a total jerk! But trust me u dont want him back if hes gonna treat u like that. Move on, Turn 2 ur friends and they will help u though it. Trust me i was there my bf broke up wit me 4 no reason and i turned 2 my friend molly she hooked me up wit a guy and i totally love him! So just find some one better and that dosent asc tlike a total jerk!
2007-03-24 04:28:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess the hardest part is to aknowledge the truth..as he said.."us" will never happen again..believe me,when a man says he doesn't love the girl anymore,practically,he means it..,and that is the reason why you should not want to go back with him..what would you do with a man who is not inlove with you??and besides,will he accept you back???
2007-03-24 04:26:22 · answer #5 · answered by amie_esprit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's a bad idea, because you'll probably end up hurting yourself over again. if he wants "nothing to do with you", then why would you wanna waste your time with this guy? there's thousands out there that would probably go out with you and i think you should wait... don't waste your time, and get hurt again over one guy. you shouldn't force yourself to believe, but i think you know already that even if you two go out, you'll either be "used" or get hurt again. but yeah, good luck.
2007-03-24 04:23:15 · answer #6 · answered by D0LLY ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only thing u can do is to get over him.. If he doesnt care for u anymore just move on.. u can find better.. i promise.
2007-03-24 04:21:59 · answer #7 · answered by blue eyes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont do it. it'll end up the same as it did before and it will MOST LIKELY be worse the second time.
2007-03-24 04:24:16 · answer #8 · answered by Zack H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋