My new boyfriend is constantl stared at by other women, and I feel insignifigent next to some of them. To put it simply, they're much prettier than me, what to do?
2007-03-24 03:44:26 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You sound insecure about yourself. Remember, he chose YOU. You should be proud of who you are and not worry about the other women. Is he looking at them? Don't spend so much time looking at the other women who are looking at him. Pay attention to him. Enjoy your time with him. Most men do not really like insecurity in women. Start liking - no - start loving yourself for who you are. You are a special person, or he would not have chose you. He must see something very beautiful in you. Accept it and enjoy your time with him. Get to know him and grow as a couple. You will miss out on a lot if you continue to be insecure and pay attention to everyone else. God doesn't make ugly people. He made you, a beautiful special woman. Hugs to you.
2007-03-24 03:50:48 · answer #1 · answered by Stephanie F 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
After reading this... I have come to realize that I need to get over this same issue. What you have to do is realize that he is with you... and not any of those other girls. When you go out in public places he is with you not them.... he is leaving with you and not them.
It is very hard to get over this type of thing. I have no issue with my boyfriend looking at another girl because guys are going to look it is in there blood... but if he touches he is in trouble.
There is something about that he loves and that is why he picked you. If he wanted another girl he would be with another girl. Don't get jealous... that is a very bad thing it will wreck your relationship.
2007-03-24 11:00:08 · answer #2 · answered by Ashley 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The fact that he chose you (and I'm sure you are very pretty), means there is something about you that is unique and different, that appeals to him. So be proud that you are the GF of this great-looking guy! Hold your head up and have confidence.
Chances are, he sees other GUYS checking YOU out, and thinks to himself, "OMG...she's soooo beautiful....why is she with ME?"
Unfortunately when we look in the mirror it is hard for us to see our own worth. Your BF sees how special you are. He is not looking at those other girls.
2007-03-24 10:50:17 · answer #3 · answered by DickJoy 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
He loves you for a reason right? Looks are all relative.. what is good looking to one is ugly to another. PLUS charisma, intelligence, sense of humor, wittiness, wisdom.. go MUCH FURTHER.
A person may be attracted to someone else for their looks but the looks are not what are going to KEEP that person.
Develop your self confidence! (I can think of many stars on tv that aren't necessarily pretty but their attitude and demeanor make them much more stunning then the overtly beautiful ones... can't you?).
2007-03-24 10:49:14 · answer #4 · answered by mosaic 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Girl, you need some self esteem. Men like confident women. Don't ever let someone including women make you feel as if your not pretty.
2007-03-24 10:53:15 · answer #5 · answered by Jayleen 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I agree with the first answerer, you've got the guy so relax. Build up some confidence, get a makeover or something if you still feel so insecure. If your in love, it shouldnt matter at all anyway.
2007-03-24 10:47:44 · answer #6 · answered by S. 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Guess what gal u got the upper hand he choose u over them. Am sure u are feeling insecure but am sure he never does anything that will make you feel like that.
2007-03-24 10:50:07 · answer #7 · answered by cena 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Be proud! He's going home with you. You will turn him off if you start acting jealous. Get a new attitude, think to yourself, "I am an amazing, gorgeous woman. I compliment his good looks."
2007-03-24 10:50:54 · answer #8 · answered by salinger 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think that you should tell them off. SO what if their prettier than you? At least he loves you ( undeline the you) and not those other girls. So don't worry about it. And make sure they don't do anything sexuall to him. But, you should keep an eye out, and if they eye him, eye them baq. Make sure it's not too threataning.
2007-03-24 10:49:16 · answer #9 · answered by Al G 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
i have the same problem. my boyfriend is quite handsome and a lot of girls ask him if he is single. his ex wife is much prettier than me. i know how you feel. but, you know what? he is with you for a reason. you have something that these girls don't have that attracts him to you and makes him want to be with you....and not them. so, hold your head up high and be proud that you got him. and feel good that you have someone who likes you for YOU. :)
2007-03-24 10:48:41 · answer #10 · answered by Hello Kitty 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋