2007-03-24 03:42:02 · 23 answers · asked by * Shayna * 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You decide.. if his mistake wasn't that serious and if you feel you still care about each other, give him another chance
2007-03-24 03:45:29 · answer #1 · answered by chili 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No..no...no..
That is the cardinal rule that many refuse to follow. Do not get back with your ex. Of course in some cases, your ex may have truly changed, but you will always have the thoughts of why you broke up in the first place playing in the back of your head.
You break up when you can no longer work out issues, breaking up is the final stage after you've tried everything. In that case, why would you go back to that?
Take your time and see what else is out there. No for sure that you aren't trying to get back together just because you miss the comfort zone you have around each other. It's always hard but in the end you'll thank yourself.
2007-03-24 10:50:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on why you broke up. Was he cheating? Was he abusive in any way (mentally, emotionally, verbally, physically)? Were you incompatible? Did he hog the remote control??
Personally I have never given an ex a second chance. There is always a good reason to break up and hardly ever a good reason to go back there. My relationships have never had shades of grey, so taking someone back has never crossed my mind.
Good luck with your decision. Make it the right one!
2007-03-24 10:51:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why wouldn't you? I don't have all the facts. If he cheated, he will probably do so again, don't waste your time. If he physically abused you, leave his ***. If he is just not giving you enough of what you need then I say go elsewhere. You are not supposed to try and change someone to fit your idea of a perfect boyfriend. Don't wait around either, they never change. Take him for what he is, leave him for what he is obviously not. There are other fish in the sea. Go for another swim.
2007-03-24 10:47:31 · answer #4 · answered by waterfunners 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. You obviously left him for a good enough reason at the time. Has anything really changed? I'm sure it was hard to make that decision, and sticking to it will be even harder but, doing the right thing is never easy. Turn to family and friends to help you through the transition.
2007-03-24 10:48:26 · answer #5 · answered by camaro829 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends On If you Forgive Him and Trust Him Still
U Can't Have A Relationship With No Trust
2007-03-24 10:48:38 · answer #6 · answered by Jay Cee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he did somthing wrong, but you still love him, and he's doing every thing he can to stay with you.... you should give it another chance. Find it in your heart to forgive him. And give him another chance.
2007-03-24 10:46:04 · answer #7 · answered by Al G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, unless he shows you that he can't live without you, and that this time it will be different. How romantic is he? Does he send you flowers?,Or write you poetry?, Or Sing you love songs? Ask yourself why you broke up in the first place?
Lead with your heart and you will never regret the outcome.
2007-03-24 10:50:13 · answer #8 · answered by MARK S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what he has done. If he really did something to break your hear then I wouldn't give him another chance.
2007-03-24 10:49:49 · answer #9 · answered by danielle14 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you don't think hes a cheater think about all the problems that you'll had together and think will it happen again to me ?? and if you think so just say no and if you think if want give him another chance
2007-03-24 10:45:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋