Every since the third grade I have had this guy like me, and I never really liked him. Everyone said that he is only dating her to get closer to me which i can believe because they never talk or anything, and I never have really liked him until a couple months earlier, before they were going out. I have tried to talk to him but every time I get close he walks away or he stutters when he talks. How do you think that I can signal to him that I like him without stabbing my friend in the back?
2007-03-24 03:37:24 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you can't. going after a guy who is dating your friend is just wrong. if it isn't meant to be between the 2 of them, it will end soon enough, then you can talk to him about getting together... but make sure you talk to your friend first, adn explain that you respected her enough not to make a play for him while they were together, but now that they aren't, you'd like to hang out with him and see if it develops.. men will come and go, it's your friends who are forever.. don't screw up something with one of your friends over some guy.. and if he IS going out with her to be closer to you, what does that say about his character?? sounds pretty sh*tty to me.
2007-03-24 03:42:21 · answer #1 · answered by Miss B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really think a lot of yourself, don't you?
Ever consider that its possible that he doesn't like you anymore?
Regardless, you better wait until he dumps your friend before you signal anything to him, or you WILL lose your friendship.
2007-03-24 10:41:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not possible. If you liked him you should have went out with him before your friend did, but you didn't. Girl's like you never know what they want until someone else has it.
2007-03-24 10:43:19 · answer #3 · answered by Stephanie's Man 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
even if this guy does like you, he is going out with your friend and friends dont do that.. it is a rule girl.. unless you dont want to be friends anymore.. but that is a shady thing to do.. u need to find another man.. friends are forever men come and go!! If he liked you he would be with you!!
2007-03-24 10:41:43 · answer #4 · answered by michelle b 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'd be stabbing your friend in the back if you aren't honest with her, yourself and to him. Just tell them both what is going on so you can have closure.
2007-03-24 10:42:05 · answer #5 · answered by meganzopf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
apparently u started to notice him since he asked ur friend out, so let things be and let him come around to u if u think that he likes u. if ur a true friend u should respect ur friendship
2007-03-24 10:41:46 · answer #6 · answered by mya 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why your trying to enter into a complex relationship? You can't force anybody for your wish. Really, there is nothing which should do.
2007-03-24 10:41:37 · answer #7 · answered by Mahesh R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Explain that you value your friendship with your friend and that you would rather he respect that although you find it flattering.
Explain is friends or nothing
good luck
2007-03-24 10:47:05 · answer #8 · answered by Byte 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's got him now. You have to respect that. Let him
be the one to talk to you when he's ready.
2007-03-24 10:40:40 · answer #9 · answered by Bubblez ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I doubt he is using her like you said. Just let their relationship run its course.
2007-03-24 10:41:26 · answer #10 · answered by shadouse 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋