actually after my marriage some1 else started loving me n i also got attracted towards him he offered me sex wid him and i agreed.i have told all this to my husband and after somedayz he has accepeted me my new bf also loves.me.now i m 2 wayed i luv both of them they both want me.wht should i do plz give me nice advice so tht it could help me without leaving them both
2007-03-24 03:36:06 · 28 answers · asked by mona 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
You made a solemn vow, an oath on the day of your wedding, to your husband. Does your word mean absolutely nothing?
2007-03-24 20:11:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a hypocrit, two timing, slut. How could you even consider another man after being married. You need to let your husband go and let him have a new start because I dont think he deserves you doing this to him.
Its people like you that have turned marriage into a simple trend instead of what it is meant to me which is a Sacramental Union between two people that love each other and want to be with each other for ever. And dont give that crap about people changing and that you couldnt help but fall in love with the other guy. That's bullshit. You should have thought about that before getting married.
2007-03-27 14:25:27 · answer #2 · answered by MariChelita 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's called temptation. It is wrong. You have made a decision to be married, which means that even if another person approached you and wanted to be with you, you must tell them "no" to honor your marriage vows. You are NOT the only person this has ever happened to, so don't think like that. Your husband can divorce you on grounds of adultry, so either drop this boyfriend and make up with him or get a divorce. Respect your family (and that includes the in-laws!)
2007-03-24 10:41:06 · answer #3 · answered by Lisa 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
There will be MANY men in your life. If you love your husband and want your marraige to work, you must say goodbye to your BF and work on rebuilding your husband's trust in you. In the future, you must NEVER let yourself get into a situation where you will be tempted. Stay away from men you are attracted to; never let yourself be alone with another man.
If you are unsure about your marraige and whether you truly love your husband, just let him go so he can find someone who willbe true to him. Then, stay single for awhile. DO NOT marry the guy you had the affair with. Start fresh.
2007-03-24 10:44:56 · answer #4 · answered by DickJoy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look, you can't ride two horses with one "butt" if you know what I mean. You love both of them but there must be one that you love more than the other right? Look, unless you plan to live as a three's company in reverse, this is not going to work out at all. Someone has to get the boot and you have to make that choice. Someome will get hurt for sure.
2007-03-24 10:42:38 · answer #5 · answered by Answer Man 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do not get married. If youll stray during the engagement, you will go wild after seven years of marriage. You are not mature enough for marriage. Pick one, have some character. Quit screwing two guys. You are being selfish and cruel. If either of these guys had sense you'd be left alone. I hate to sound so crass but people like you disgust me and Im just being honest.
2007-03-24 10:45:34 · answer #6 · answered by salinger 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to make a decision and pick one guy.
When you married your husband you promised to be faithful to him and him alone. You have already broken that promise, he however has chosen to forgive you, making him a very understanding man.
You need to think about the type of person you want to be are you going to be the type of person who breaks the most sacred of vows from now on or are you going to take them to heart and start honoring them. Because you husband forgave you this time does not mean he will the next time.
Also, I would highly recommend that the next time you post a question that you use the spell check button located on the top of the text box on the right. It would be appreciated by most who are going to read and respond to your questions and they might be nicer about their answers if they haven't developed a headache in reading your question.
2007-03-24 15:36:45 · answer #7 · answered by willowlafaye 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you tell someone nicely that they are a S Lut? Oops, guess you can't. You made vows, promising to love only your husband. You've broken those vows. So you are also a liar and a S Lut. How old are you? Like 15 maybe? Time to grow up tramp. Dump the boyfriend, beg your husband to forgive you and do so from your knees.
2007-03-24 10:44:25 · answer #8 · answered by sparkletina 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should not be married. Not only because you fell into temptation, but it seems as though you do not have enough respect for marriage to keep your legs closed. If you really loved your husband you wouldn't have gone against your vows to him.
My advice:
Get divorced
Don't get married for 10 more years and...
Type like an adult.
2007-03-24 12:01:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
For the love of everything that is holy what in the hell are you doing? What you should do is say good-bye to your boyfriend because you are someone's WIFE, and live up to the vows of your husband. Sweetie you shouldnt have gotten married in the first place.
2007-03-24 10:44:30 · answer #10 · answered by Tiffany 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋