2007-03-24 03:35:03 · 14 answers · asked by Bruza 17/uk 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Im like this too. I dont like being around my family. Maybe im cold hearted.
2007-03-24 03:38:29 · answer #1 · answered by Cmac 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's hard to say without knowing your situation. I'm kind of the same (and used to be more so). I didn't talk to my family about things that I would talk to my friends about. It's easy to think that because they're your family you'll automatically be the best of friends, but that's not necessarily the case. It might be that you don't feel they know you that well, or that you're not sure what they think about you. Perhaps you should work at getting to know them on a friendship level. Think about how you act and feel around other people and do what you can to be like that around them. If you can, make your life with them and your life with friends less segregated - mix them more. That might help.
2007-03-24 03:40:52 · answer #2 · answered by NatalieR 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It isn't that you are shy around your family it is that you have not yet built a friendship with your family. You have to be able to know that your family are not only just people that guide you in the right direction or just tell you what to do but that you can just be who you are and share with them every thing, the good, bad and ugly. You are fearful of your family and you need to get past the fear and begin to share and be yourself. You will see that they will still love you even if you think that they will not approve of you for who you really are... Hope that helps I was like that once and I had to just be me.
2007-03-24 03:51:40 · answer #3 · answered by Tina 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
u no sumtimes we can be two different ppl many of us out ther are
ur family has ideals of u they want u to be the person they raised u to be but peraps ur not and so ur shy becuz u dont want to disappoint them its ok its not a bad thing many ppl live the same way
ur family r ther 4 u for so many years they build u to face the outside world and to survive in it so just carry on the way u want to be and sooner or later mayb they see a different side of u it doesnt mean u have to hide tht side or tht u have to be ashamed of it its just another way in which mind in all its wonders works
2007-03-24 03:40:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you feel more free with other people because they don't know you as well as your family does. You might feel that your family is more likely to judge you if you be true self, don't let fear keep you from being you.
2007-03-24 03:45:16 · answer #5 · answered by Morgan le Fey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could be shy of your family perhaps because you are embarrassed or are not feeling too confident. Have they put you down at all for you to lose confidence?
It could be that you are keen to please them and don't want to disappoint so you get embarrassed.
Am sure with time it will ease.
2007-03-24 05:27:27 · answer #6 · answered by laplandfan 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you are around your family you are shy most likely because if you mess-up you'll be around them more and they can hold it against you.But when you're arond friends and new people they don't really know how you usually are so they don't really have anything to hold against.
2007-03-24 03:45:39 · answer #7 · answered by Smart'n'sassy 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's because you are constantly aware of their probable disapproval of your clothes, make-up, jewellery, or anything you say. The answer is to just be yourself and let them get on with their disapproval - it's their problem, not yours. (Oh, by the way, it's "no" not "know")
2007-03-24 03:43:21 · answer #8 · answered by artleyb 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be that you are seeking approval of your family, and worried what they think of you.
2007-03-24 03:38:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
U must not have a close relationship with them.
2007-03-24 03:38:40 · answer #10 · answered by lovely19 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋