Well I started dating this guy about 3 days ago and he wants to kiss me and I dont know what to do. I have never kissed a guy B4 so I am kinda new at this. But I really really like him.
ps I am a teenager
2007-03-24 03:30:09 · 8 answers · asked by island gurl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wait until you're comfortable enough with him and yourself, to kiss him.
If you like him, and want to kiss him, you should kiss him.
(I'm not saying make out with him right off the bat, but you know...)
2007-03-24 03:34:12 · answer #1 · answered by Annie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No kissing. Kissing opens up the door for other things and you are not ready for that you have your whole life to kiss. Three days is way to soon you have not been friends with this guy long enough and he just has to respect that you are a girl with values and standards. By the way boys like girls that are not easy even though they might not say so. They really always come back and marry the girls that was not easy.
2007-03-24 10:37:38 · answer #2 · answered by Tina 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion kissing him is ok as long as he is not pressuring you. Because if he is, than he may pressure you into other things that you may not be comfortable with.
When you are together and the subject of kissing comes up, give him what I call the 'conservative'' kiss. Basically touch your lips with his, but keep your mouth closed and gently feel his lips with yours as you pucker up slightly. Don't pucker to miuch or you'll look like a woodpecker. This type of kiss is not what one would call necking, so it should'nt be a long kiss. You don't want to kiss him to long yet, you want him to come back for more. Its important that you, as a young lady are in control with the situation, therefore if he slips his tongue inside your mouth and you are uncomfortable, than stop and pull away politly. Tell him you want to slow down and your not quite ready. Know that guys will be guys an especially when they are in the teens and hormones play a big picture, so its important to remember that even just a kiss could get him sexually aroused. You have to ask yourself how are you going to respond to anything further, and how far are you willing to go. Make a plan inside your head and stick to it. If he's patient and understands than hes a keeper, if he pressures you all the time and makes up excuses why you should go further, than get rid of him!! Like I said before, YOU are in control, so makes sure you stay in control.
PS, there are no classes that teach kissing 101, but I learned alot watching soap operas, the actors are not allowed to french kiss on tv, so they do the "conservative" kiss, but in a senual way!! Check it out!! Good Luck
2007-03-24 11:08:09 · answer #3 · answered by desi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thinks of Kisses and sex as the ultimate prize. Do not just give them away!
Make this boy earn them.
If you are under age, think twice about starting a physical relationship. It WILL mess up your life in ways you can't imagine.
If you are of age, think of yourself as a treasure that should be fought for by others. I guarantee you will feel much better if you give that notion a go.
2007-03-24 10:36:00 · answer #4 · answered by Dr NO 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait a while. kissing turns to sex which turns to babies. being an unwed teen mother is not something to look foward to.
i'm not tellingyou net to kiss him, just wait until you feel comfortable with him. if you are really young, are you sure you should be dating in the first place?
2007-03-24 10:35:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well,just let it happen~!every thing needs to be started,so do not ever fear that the commencement of sth new,plus you are at this stage of age,you are physically demanding this kind of pleasure,as long as it doesn't get too far(like love making),it is okey to try,to experience for a grownup like you.
2007-03-24 10:41:10 · answer #6 · answered by stone 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
things like this should just happen. let things go with the flow. you'll know when you're ready or not.
2007-03-24 10:35:45 · answer #7 · answered by C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you want to go it slow. If you don't establish your boundaries now, whoknows how far he will pressure you to go!
2007-03-24 10:34:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋