actually after my marriage some1 else has started loving i too have attracted towards him and had sex wid me when he offered me i couldnt say no to him .i dont know wht to do!he says tht he is not ready to leave me!
2007-03-24 03:23:48 · 17 answers · asked by mona 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
if you feel this way, I don't think you were ready for marriage ... you need to sit down with your husband and explain ... it wont be nice .. but you need to sort it out before the situation gets more complicated .. e.g. by getting pregnant.
2007-03-24 03:33:43 · answer #1 · answered by hustolemyname 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's not that you couldn't say no to him. You DID have a choice - and you chose to say yes.
It's important to be VERY AWARE of your choices. I think right now you have some choices to make.
1) Leave your husband and go be with this new guy you love.
2) Stay with your husband - and never again see the man you now love.
3) Stay with your husband - and keep seeing the man you love - knowing that your husband could find out at any time.
Think about how each situation looks. Think about how it feels in your heart. Gosh - if it were me - I'd know that NONE of them looked very good.
You've done something pretty awful. You can't change that - but you can try to do the right thing from this point forward. Only you know what that is.
I hope your make the right choice. And remember it IS all about your choices. Please don't be saying "I couldn't say no" - because you CAN. It's your choice.
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2007-03-24 10:38:09 · answer #2 · answered by liddabet 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Something must have been wrong with your married relationship to begin with. You need to look for the reason that you needed attention from someone else. If the man you are having an affar with knows you are married then he probably has commitment issues and the minute you are single he will be gone. I am not saying that your feelings arn't real, just think about why you are not feeling them for your husband.
2007-03-24 10:38:18 · answer #3 · answered by Rambokitty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're a filthy whore, so I'd suggest that you do the only honorable thing: Bang as many people as possible whilst still married to your shmuck husband. Bang all of his friends and be sure you give his best friend a *******. Its really the only way to handle this sort of situation.
-J.
2007-03-24 10:34:53 · answer #4 · answered by Jason 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off what you did is an eternal sin unless you ask for forgiveness. Secondly, you need to come clean to your husband and if he is willing to work it out, then give it 110% but if he is not, bow out gracefully. I would highly recommend you get into counseling to find out why you did what you did. Pray to God for help. He will never fore sake you and stand beside you. PRAY!!!!
2007-03-24 10:36:35 · answer #5 · answered by Callie L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to grow up and realize you are committed to your husband. If you love him, you need to stop seeing the other man NOW! If you don't love your husband, tell him now and give HIM a break. He deserves MUCH better than what you're doing right now.
2007-03-24 10:33:39 · answer #6 · answered by clarity 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
oh Lord!! wht in hell is wrong with u girl?????????
u have just married, and u'r cheating on your husband, and having sex with another man, how would this make your guy feel?!?
u've gone nuts, and u will sure screw up things, end it now...and try to get your marriage back on track!
2007-03-24 13:20:22 · answer #7 · answered by Farah K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cheated on your husband?
im sorry but under no circumstances is that ok this is not ur decision its your husbands you need to come clean and then if he takes u back stick with him cuz you married him for a reason and if he lets u go then its your own damn fault
2007-03-24 10:28:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Repent.
2007-03-24 10:28:03 · answer #9 · answered by mikey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're a fool. You've invited alot of trouble into your life with your behavior. What do you mean you don't know what to do? You've already done it.
2007-03-24 10:28:48 · answer #10 · answered by melouofs 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋