So I had sex for the second time in my life last night. Problem is, I'm still not really enjoying it....how many times does it take to start to like it and for it to feel pleasurable? Me and my boyfriend do lots of foreplay before hand.
2007-03-24 03:08:47 · 7 answers · asked by Katy S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's not all that strange - it is a new experience for you and you may be feeling a little too self-conscious or scared. In time you will feel more relaxed. Or maybe your friend is also nervous or inexperienced. Perhaps a drink before sex might help you both loosen up.
2007-03-24 03:16:54 · answer #1 · answered by Marcus P. Cato 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, for teen girls sex really doesn't get better. Not until you fall in real love. I recon its why God wants us to remain chaste until marriage.
Sex is a very personal thing between two people.
Your at your most vulnerable state when naked in bed with some one. Your performance is very critical. And he or she is your only critic.
Us women do not always have a good time with sex. Even with our husbands we don't always reach orgasm. The reasons are numerous. But the biggest reason is the feelings. Our hearts may be hurt. Or we are just tired. And we may just not be interested.
As you become more experienced with relationships, you''ll find that sex really isn't all that its cracked up to be for women. But for men its the most important thing in life.
If you think your, your boyfriend or husbands best friend. Your wrong. Rosy Palmer is.
2007-03-24 10:23:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I hate to say this, but it does depend a lot on your partner and how compatible you 2 are together. Right now, you are probably just still a bit tense and a little nervous. The closer you are with your partner, the better the sex will be between you. Give it some time. It definitely gets better with age!
2007-03-24 10:15:03 · answer #3 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It'll get better when you're mentally relaxed about it.
It's only your second time.
Think of your mom parts like a pair of new shoes or jeans. It'll take time for them to comfortable.
Take your time, relax, and enjoy yourself.
Also, ask yourself if you're stressed or worried about it. Your mind could be wrapped up on lots of things. Stress can be a killer.
2007-03-24 10:14:32 · answer #4 · answered by dgrhm 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
woah! how old are you anyway? to answer your question, i think you need to do it 100th times before you'll appreciate it.. you have to be comfortable with your body and with your partner's body so you can explore each other better..
2007-03-24 10:14:25 · answer #5 · answered by sarah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get freaky and push harder and harder and moan and groan and just forget about everything else and focus on it and ......I feel perverted..... but yeah
2007-03-24 10:14:16 · answer #6 · answered by Kenyon M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uh.......
2007-03-24 10:11:41 · answer #7 · answered by s k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋