2007-03-24 03:04:33 · 15 answers · asked by barun123_2000 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
As others have stated: ask her. There is no other way to know, other than, say, medical evidence of a prior pregnancy, which would obviously indicate that she's not a virgin. You can't rely on what any third party says, and, contrary to what others have answered, you can't rely on her bleeding after sex as any indicator that she was a virgin. Friction from sex can irritate the vaginal walls and, more often, the cervix, causing bleeding/spotting. So please don't "rely" on that old "test."
You have to take her at her word. If it's so important for you that she be a virgin....make sure she's a woman you trust. And if she's not a woman you trust, you probably shouldn't be with her anyway.
2007-03-24 03:16:13 · answer #1 · answered by ljb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you want a serious relationship with her. and have been dating for a long time and are ready to make the step to having sex with her. you BOTH can always go get tested for stds and so sort. and you will know about that and i mean i guess on the drive up there ask her if she is a virgin but im sure if you guys have been together for a while it will just come up in conversation at some point or another
2007-03-24 03:12:26 · answer #2 · answered by Abercrombie Queen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you have a lot of nerve you will ask her if she is a virgin but a lot of girls would be very offended if some guy asked her if she was a virgin or not. Good Luck with that!!!
2007-03-24 03:09:18 · answer #3 · answered by emochick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No - its impossible to scientifically establish this because all girls are physically different and what "scientific proof" may establish this for some - will not "establish it for others"
If a girl tells you she is a virgin - Thank God and Trust in the Lord!
2007-03-24 03:20:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her. If you don't believe her or if she feels she has to lie to you, then this isn't a good relationship anyway. And if the fact that she isn't a virgin is very important to you, then it isn't a good relationship, either.
2007-03-24 03:11:14 · answer #5 · answered by True Blue Brit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is no way and really if you like the person WHO CARES --- being a virgin or not is irrelevant and in 20 years time it is of no consequence
2007-03-24 03:16:26 · answer #6 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's no easy way of knowing, unless of course she either tells you the truth, or you have sex and she bleeds. Why would you need to know this ?
2007-03-24 03:08:55 · answer #7 · answered by Tweety 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There's no other way to know except to ask her. Unless of course, you are having sex with her.
2007-03-24 03:15:16 · answer #8 · answered by alain 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she bleeds when you do her, she was a virgin.
If she doesn't, she could've still been a virgin and had her hyman broken some other way (horseback riding, ect).
So you may never know.
2007-03-24 03:08:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
my dear if you rely on any bleeding you may accuse wrongly.the only way is to believe in what ever she tell you.thanks
2007-03-24 03:13:58 · answer #10 · answered by debie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋