umm should i go out with my ex? welll after we broke up..he asked out my friend... she broke up with him.. and 5 girls have asked him out. i asked him out and he said he wants to be single atleast for the rest of the week. and my friends asked him if he would. he is thinking about it during spring breakj. i really like him. and it is like we go out. we talk on the phone sometimes, we wrtie each other notes.. we talk alot should i go for it or not
2007-03-24 02:23:18 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you and him really want to be with each other then that's the way it should be, but if one does and one doesn't (as in you 2) then forget it and move on...
2007-03-24 03:15:06 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to ask yourself why you broke up with him in the first place. But from what you've put here, I think you should go out with him again. Probably the only reason that he wants to stay single for the rest of the week is so he doesn't cheat on you. It's Spring Break and he's probably going out partying a lot. He doesn't want to do something stupid that would hurt you if you were going out.
2007-03-24 02:29:01 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm, perhaps a good question to ask is that do you feel secure in maintaining a long term relationship? Consider too about the problems that lead to the breakup, is there any way to resolve? Think far, don't get yourself hurt again. Cheers.
2007-03-24 02:37:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay that is a major no. friends don't date the same guy. old rule of conduct. if he wants to wait another week to be with you that means he still got some playing around he wants to do. Don't waste your time. i understand you really like him but do you think his actions are warranted of you and your emotions for him. what if he does get with you because the playing field is limmited but kick back up during spring break do you think he will remain faithful?
2007-03-24 02:29:49 · answer #4 · answered by Snickerlicious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's what happened to me once don't go out with him if you don't want to suffer trust me I was in that situation before.If he really did like you he wouldn't be going out with other girls and he would of said yes to you when you asked him out.
2007-03-24 02:33:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well give him some time u don't want 2 rush into things 2 fast
but yeah i would go out with him again cause u do luv eachother
2007-03-24 02:29:38 · answer #6 · answered by v-ball_chick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Flip a coin.
You've already been there, done him. Can you live with the reason you broke up to begin with?
2007-03-24 02:28:03 · answer #7 · answered by guy o 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well sorry to burst your bubble, but its really not up to you. If you like him that much, you should trust him to want you back. If he doesnt, then there's not much you can do.
2007-03-24 02:28:02 · answer #8 · answered by Jess 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO move on...why go backwards..you two ended for a reason and that reason is still there............
2007-03-24 02:27:02 · answer #9 · answered by angeleyez1956@verizon.net 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can try. Old flames burn stronger.
2007-03-24 02:28:12 · answer #10 · answered by Carl R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋