now i know it sounds stupid, cuz its only one month, but its not only that, he's also leaving to L.A the next day after our 1month aniversary and i wont see him till like june(but our 1month aniversary is april 9th), so its important to me. by the way hes 18 and im almost 16
so anyway this is what he likes:
-animals/pets
-music
-video games
-designer clothes (his fav designers: lancome, hugo)
i dont wanna get him something to random like an ipod but i also dont wanna get him something too sentimental so he doesnt get freaked out...
by the way, i cant get him a pet cuz hes got like a million of them...
please its driving me crazy i really need to know what to get
2007-03-24 02:17:06 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
A can of whipped cream and a whole night in which to say goodbye
2007-03-24 02:19:01 · answer #1 · answered by Uncle John 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Personally, I think you should just chill out on the obsessiveness and ask yourself do you really care for this guy enough not to get him into trouble. Technically you shouldn't even be dating him given your age and the fact that it's considered statutory rape in most states anyway (if you're sleeping the the guy). Besides that, you shouldn't get him anything for a 1 month anniversary because it's not that deep, yet another reason why you shouldn't be dating at your age, you don't have the emotional maturity to understand what a relationship is and how to determine when it is more than just a friendship or has the potential to be something serious. One month isn't enough time for a mature person to make that determination. And I would have to wonder what kind of parents you have to allow you to have a relationship with a guy at your age to begin with. You need to concentrate on more important things in your young life, like your education for starters. Think about that. Because you don't get a do over.
2007-03-24 09:24:45 · answer #2 · answered by mixedup 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't spend too much on this!! It will look like you are trying too hard if you do. Do you have a song that is "your song"? Get him a CD with the song on it. Or get him some music that he really likes -- or a small stuffed animal "pet" to take with him. The gift needs to be something that he can take and enjoy, but nothing too personal like clothing or too expensive at this point. Wait until you've been together a year to get something the price of an ipod.
2007-03-24 09:27:41 · answer #3 · answered by Alicia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What the heck is wrong with getting him an iPod?! Being a guy, I have to say electronics are one of the top best gifts you can give a guy. Why do you think they're called "guy toys?" heh heh Especially if he's going to L.A., he'll need a huge selection of portable music for the airplane and anywhere else he is. Maybe buy it for him and load some songs on there that will make him think of you when he's gone.
Guys don't really need "romantic" gifts like flowers or chocolate. The idea of you going out and picking up something you know he'll enjoy and use (like guy toys) is the romance behind it.
2007-03-24 09:24:16 · answer #4 · answered by Jay M 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I wouldn't get anything much if anything at all, like and iPod thats alot of money to put down for something thats only been going on for a month, at the most id just get him an $15 iTunes card if he likes music, and i would make sure he's getting you something to.
To get and iPod you should atleast wait for it to last a couple years, otherwise he may try to leech off you if he knows youll buy expensive things like that.
2007-03-24 09:21:51 · answer #5 · answered by ashmep 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So cute! Still celebrating month anniversaries!
For a 1 month anniversary, don't spend too much money. He won't be expecting you to, and you'll go broke trying to live up to that expectation every month. Why not just take him out to dinner and give him a framed picture of the 2 of you?
2007-03-24 09:21:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get him a good book to read on his trip to LA, or if he's got a psp (or something similar) get him a game.
It's only been a month, don't get him anything expensive since that freaks guys out just as much as sentimental things this early on.
2007-03-24 09:22:57 · answer #7 · answered by faerae 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
a very good and sweet memories with you together will do. unless you know him as a materialistic type! Sweet memories together is much better so he would get to miss you badly when he leave. What kind of memories?? Playing video games together.. playing with the pets together.. listening and sharing your music interest with his.. go to mall and see whats the latest design for his fave brands! Sharing your time with him counts a lot.. much more if you share it with his interests! you can have your pics of your some happy memories together for him take with.
2007-03-24 09:29:03 · answer #8 · answered by άЌίτά 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The only reason it's important is because you are 15-years old. Get him a card, spritz it with perfume and write him a note. That should be more than fine.
2007-03-24 09:22:50 · answer #9 · answered by i_cycle_hard 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1 month is nothing sorry but if you really want to get him something get him a designer shirt or something.
mixed up i agree
Hope dis helps = P
2007-03-24 09:26:50 · answer #10 · answered by Shutter Speed Is All You Need 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋