well theres this guy i kno n we've known each otha 4 like 2 skool years n i went out wit him the first year then we broke up after like 2 weeks. so he went out with all these other girls n the next thing he hooks up wit this gurl n they went out n through his relationship wit her,he would pass notes wit me n flirt wit me all the time but she started gettin jealous which caused them to break up, then one day we told each other that we liked eah other. after winter break we came back n started talkin more n gettin closer but we have like the occasional arguements that are really stupid n we go w/o talkin 2 each other 4 like a week then we'll make up. its like one day he wants me n da next day he dont, then he jus got wit this other girl n they seem pretty serious but he still talks to me like he wants to go out n he told me1 day that he loved me a lil bit(it was a mutual feelin) n now we're argueing again. i think he wants the luxury of a gf but the freedom of bein single n flirtin wit m
2007-03-24 01:33:40 · 7 answers · asked by t e n d e r . 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
of what i could understant from what u wrote, he is definately using u. what does he mean by loving u "little bit" ?
dump him. move on. there are better things in life than just waiting for an ugly disloyal loser.
2007-03-24 01:45:45 · answer #1 · answered by sand 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, Wake up and the coffee! Your age, is like 14-16 maybe?
You may cycle through about 6-15 boyfriends before you find the 'right' one. Depending on rather and how 'active' your adolenscent life is right now. That's LIFE. This 'joker' is just using you, And Her, to help boost his 'young adolescent-still developing' ego. He may be playing cat and mouse with -both of you and sitting back getting a Big Kick out of it. All he is doing is creating present and future ' Locker Room Talk'.
2007-03-24 08:53:46 · answer #2 · answered by Swimcity 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants to have his cake and eat it too. He likes having a girlfriend and knowing that he can mess with you anytime he wants. You need to put your foot down and tell him that he needs to back off as long as he has a girlfriend. If the fighting is the problem then you will always have problems. Everyone fights, it's just up to you as to whether or not it gets bad. Both of you have to let things go at times. Ask him if the love is real, if so he needs to stop with the other women and if not then he needs to stop playing with your head.
2007-03-24 08:40:12 · answer #3 · answered by my_own_frog 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him "we could be good friends" and see how he acts
basically he's just settin' you up to use you again someday as before...
be cautious and careful and meet other people and always keep your options open
don't let guys jerk you around by your feelings or emotions or the things they say to you...use your mind and intuition and it will serve you well as the years go by..
Actions always speak louder than words.
2007-03-24 08:40:33 · answer #4 · answered by Gary G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes a player
2007-03-24 08:37:23 · answer #5 · answered by mmbmw2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's a player, don't waste your time. if he really "loved" you, he woulda got back together with ya when he broke up with the last gal.
2007-03-24 08:38:27 · answer #6 · answered by Hooligan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ignore him. i think. i kind of quit trying to understand you after a while. oh well...
2007-03-24 08:38:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋