i met this girl about 7 months ago, she is canadian but her company sent her to work here in france for a year, anyway when i met her she told me that she has a boyfriend back in canada and they've been together for almost 5 years.
i didn't show her any interest and we started running into each other because we are in the same circle of friends and then we became very close and there was chemistry and so we agreed to become "Friends with benefits" but then we became even closer! and there was so much passion, and then she says she wants to be exclusive and we started dating for a while
at this point she tells me that she wanted to break up with her boyfriend even before we met.
so now she went back to canada to break up with her 5 years boyfriend and she'll be back in a couple of weeks
here's my dilemma:
did she hook up with me just to make it easier for her to break up with her 5 years or was she really interested???? and when she comes back should i give her some space or date her!
2007-03-24 00:26:40 · 5 answers · asked by Slash 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She had to go back there because they were living together and she needed to take her stuff out of his place, and you can't end a 5 years relationship with a phone call!!!
but yes, she confessed to have had break-up sex with him!!! and she told me that i can sleep with other girls while she is away!!! God, i feel like a sucker!!!
and she extended her job in france for one more year to be with me, and the reason she wanted to break up with him is that he is 33 and she is 26 and he wants to settle down and have kids and wants to have a traditional family, and that's not what she wants yet...
2007-03-24 00:27:09 · update #1
Best advice...stop chasing the pussy...go to school and get a degree....more satisfaction!
2007-03-24 00:30:54 · answer #1 · answered by stupidreplier1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Beware. She's flighty and non-committal. She could change her mind or pursue something or someone else at the drop of a hat. Chances are, she may have cheated on the guy before. Cheaters always cheat again unless they get therapy (saw the statistics for it somewhere).
But if you REALLY want to pursue this relationship, just go into it knowing that it may not be for forever.
As for space... sounds like she's all about space.
2007-03-24 07:50:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont see any silver lining here.I feel like she's just taking advantage of you.She isnt honest with you nor with her bf.She's simply playing around with guys.I am surprised how can such a person be committed to just one guy for 5 years.Incredible.Its your turn next to get dumped for some unrealistic reasons.
This is my opinion based on your explanation about her.To date her or not is entirely upto you.You seem to be a good guy to me and wouldnt wanna break you heart.
2007-03-24 08:21:35 · answer #3 · answered by Sheeth 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what you can do is to advice her in a romantic way that you know will catch her interest then let the cat out of the bag,because she is not in love with ypu but only interested in the way you two get along.SHE IS NOT GOOD FOR YOU.She will soon dump you too if you are not careful!!!
2007-03-24 07:43:36 · answer #4 · answered by susy r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
RUN!!!! SHe cheated on hhm she will cheat on you...TRUST me...NORMAL couples date for a year or two then get engaged and make wedding plans..after the two years one doesn't wnat to be in a committed relationship incase someone better comes along....HUM...think about it...I bet she had a man before this man and cheated on him with him....history repeats itself...also if you havdoupts about this or snything??? It is GOD telling you NO...so run...run...run....good luck..I know if you stay with her you'll be happy until she cheats on you and she will....
2007-03-24 07:33:33 · answer #5 · answered by angeleyez1956@verizon.net 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋